Sorry, I have to defend my family.  They own know the situation as they know my ex is expecting.  Because I was homeless I'm apparently prioritised for a two bedroom flat so I can have a room for my kids and if I leave the Place I'm in i give up that right to be on that list and there's no way whilst giving her maintanence money every month I afford a two bedroomed flat at the moment.  My parents are in a very tough position as they need to be neutral face vaulue to see their grandkids. Friends,