Bobby Skidmarks Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 Bobs right, get her fucking told. No point in sitting whinging about going into debt whilst she’s spending money like Bennett in a pie shop. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bairnardo Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 Maybe tell her instead of us. Get her proper telt. Oh and FWIW, if my other half 'suggested' I take a job earning less because in some bizarre situation in her head it'll suit her better, my response would simply be "no". Like I said, it was more complicated than that. And lets not pretend this thread isnt full of big talk about getting wives telt. Il do what everyone else does and seethe in silence. 13 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bobby Skidmarks Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 2 minutes ago, Bairnardo said: And lets not pretend this thread isnt full of big talk about getting wives telt. Il do what everyone else does and seethe in silence. With all due respect, if my wife’s spending money we don’t have, I’ll tell her. It’s not really big talk, just having the backbone not to run into debt for no reason. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bairnardo Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 1 minute ago, Bobby Skidmarks said: With all due respect, if my wife’s spending money we don’t have, I’ll tell her. It’s not really big talk, just having the backbone not to run into debt for no reason. To be clear, we are talking mild annoyance levels, have a wee bitch about it on here stuff not "into debt" levels. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bobby Skidmarks Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 Just now, Bairnardo said: To be clear, we are talking mild annoyance levels, have a wee bitch about it on here stuff not "into debt" levels. Gotcha, just you talking about delving deep into overdrafts would have been enough for me. Hope you work it out. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boghead ranter Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 3 hours ago, Bairnardo said: Recently changed jobs. The main reason for which was to make Mrs B happy. Its nore complicated than that, but thats reason #1 why it happened. New job is on considerably less money so before accepting it this was explained. We will be ok, but we will have to watch what we are doing, especially for the first few months. And still the deliveries came. Fast forward a couple of months, add on a few hundred to the never never Next account, and I am in the new job, and deep into my overdraft for the first time in years. And still..... The deliveries come. What is it going to fucking take ffs. It's not what your spending, it's what you're saving that counts. In a female world, anyway. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trackdaybob Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 1 hour ago, Bairnardo said: And lets not pretend this thread isnt full of big talk about getting wives telt. Il do what everyone else does and seethe in silence. Please do not judge me by your standards. It's not big talk here. We discuss what we can and cannot afford. I got caught out a long time ago with an ex. I am not heading down that road again. Whilst I appreciate there would be other factors at your end, I do not buckle to my other half's every whim like a lot of men seem to. But that's up to them, I'm sure they have their reasons as I have mine. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bairnardo Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 Fucking hell, I must have picked a serious day to post a wee rant 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Derry Alli Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 9 minutes ago, Bairnardo said: Fucking hell, I must have picked a serious day to post a wee rant It's glorious. Post another one. Shitebag if you don't. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sergeant Wilson Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 14 minutes ago, Bairnardo said: Fucking hell, I must have picked a serious day to post a wee rant How long does she let you on the computer? 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stellaboz Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 Bigger shitebag than Stevie Crawford if you don't.Worse than Ray MacKinnon if you don't. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
welshbairn Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 Time for a crowdfunder imo, a Baltic cruise and some Next vouchers should do it. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bairnardo Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 Bigger shitebag than Stevie Crawford if you don't.Worse than Ray MacKinnon if you don't. Dont you have bigger problems to be posting on P&B this evening mucker? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miguel Sanchez Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 Control your woman. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe Terrapin Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 18 minutes ago, Bairnardo said: Fucking hell, I must have picked a serious day to post a wee rant On a serious note, she may have a problem. An ex of mine was pretty similar. Got herself into so much debt she took out a secured loan on the house (forged my signature), and I only found out when she tried it again to pay off the first loan with a bigger second one. Luckily house had equity and I was able to get out without serious consequences and to be honest was a blessing in disguise. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Robin.Hood Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 Please do not judge me by your standards. It's not big talk here. We discuss what we can and cannot afford. I got caught out a long time ago with an ex. I am not heading down that road again. Whilst I appreciate there would be other factors at your end, I do not buckle to my other half's every whim like a lot of men seem to. But that's up to them, I'm sure they have their reasons as I have mine. The state of this.You appreciate other factors and you have been down this road before ? Big bad Bob dishing it out. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Curmudgeon Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 Recently changed jobs. The main reason for which was to make Mrs B happy. Its nore complicated than that, but thats reason #1 why it happened. New job is on considerably less money so before accepting it this was explained. We will be ok, but we will have to watch what we are doing, especially for the first few months. And still the deliveries came. Fast forward a couple of months, add on a few hundred to the never never Next account, and I am in the new job, and deep into my overdraft for the first time in years. And still..... The deliveries come. What is it going to fucking take ffs. You have my sympathies. I'm sorry to hear that you're finding yourself a bit short. 15 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bairnardo Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 Just now, Curmudgeon said: 4 hours ago, Bairnardo said: Recently changed jobs. The main reason for which was to make Mrs B happy. Its nore complicated than that, but thats reason #1 why it happened. New job is on considerably less money so before accepting it this was explained. We will be ok, but we will have to watch what we are doing, especially for the first few months. And still the deliveries came. Fast forward a couple of months, add on a few hundred to the never never Next account, and I am in the new job, and deep into my overdraft for the first time in years. And still..... The deliveries come. What is it going to fucking take ffs. You have my sympathies. I'm sorry to hear that you're finding yourself a bit short. This is better. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stellaboz Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 Dont you have bigger problems to be posting on P&B this evening mucker?Nope. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
welshbairn Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 2 hours ago, Trackdaybob said: Oh and FWIW, if my other half 'suggested' I take a job earning less because in some bizarre situation in her head it'll suit her better, my response would simply be "no". When you're opting to work away leaving her to look after the kids? She should have no say in the matter? Are you single perchance? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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