I went to the game on Sunday with my wife, daughter and son. All wearing their England tops apart from me in my Scoland top.
I'll be honest I had a good time. I couldn't bring myself to "support" England but for the benefit of my young daughter especially I at least kept my thoughts to myself and just showed my appreciation for the occasion.
Wife has been playing football since she was little, she had to play for the men's University team as there was no women team at the time, she was only allowed to train and play friendlies not in the league which was "male only", this was only 14 years ago. She coaches our sons team. Two players left when they found out that she was taking over coaching, it wasn't said to her face but the parents of the two kids told another parent that they didn't think there would be a benefit for their sons being coached by a female and wanted them to be coached by a male. She played for the local women's team, she would wait until the Friday night to see what the weather was like, if it was chucking it down and pitches waterlogged, hard frosted surfaces in winter she would watch the youth teams, mens and veterans teams all play before the ladies were told that their games couldn't go ahead due to "unplayable surfaces".
To say that she was in tearful on Sunday would be an understatement. She sees it hopefully as a seminal moment in women's football where it is taken seriously and as equals at a grassroots level, if not at a professional level, for the development of a game she's loved as much as any boy since she was a wee girl, and also for our daughters sake.
The game won't be for everyone, someone said that the fans sounded like they were at a pop concert which I would say it is accurate, it didn't have that charged atmosphere that men's games too, but it also as result it lost that toxicity, I was nervous about wearing my top, so much so I took another t-shirt to change into unless I got grief, didn't need to worry as nobody batted an eyelid. Just a good family friendly affair, no trouble.
All in all I'm not ashamed to say I had a good time, more importantly my daughter loved it. Just wish it was Scotland I was watching.
Hopefully then powers at be in the Scottish game don't miss this opportunity, we have some good players, Weir, Cuthbert etc, we need to develop the game so that we don't get left behind.
If I get the chance I'll definitely make more of an effort to go and take in a Scottish lassies game/follow them, take my little girl too, see if I can turn her away from the dark side!!