fandabbywee78 Posted September 19, 2023 Share Posted September 19, 2023 3 minutes ago, Right turn Clyde said: out of context as nothing written to me has been posted. Very much in context as you’ve tried to claim you genuinely wish this person well when you have clearly called him names on another social media platform, whether directly to him or not, and they’ve stepped down to get away from critique that crossed a line. Those screenshots of things you have said (no doubt other examples) definitely cross a line. You may want to reflect on your behaviour. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Right turn Clyde Posted September 19, 2023 Share Posted September 19, 2023 7 minutes ago, fandabbywee78 said: Very much in context as you’ve tried to claim you genuinely wish this person well when you have clearly called him names on another social media platform, whether directly to him or not, and they’ve stepped down to get away from critique that crossed a line. Those screenshots of things you have said (no doubt other examples) definitely cross a line. You may want to reflect on your behaviour. Oh yes, the fact he is a volunteer and suffering from depression is now a stick to beat me with. This is why we are bottom of the league....we pick the wrong foe, time and time again and the Board love it..."divide and conquer" is exactly what they want. I genuinely do empathise with him regarding his depression as I have been there myself many years ago and it is a very lonely frightening place. But, those close to him should not have let him put himself out there on media, where criticism will exist. I do have to say that the recent comments were probably wrong of me as I had begun to recognise some symptoms of depression in his body language....so yes, having reflected as you suggest, that was wrong of me not to back off. Not sure referring to him as "dopey" in a communication with our very own Arthur Montford, who had been goading me, was enough to tip him over the edge.....but I apologise if I have added to his anxiety. -1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brian Carrigan Posted September 19, 2023 Share Posted September 19, 2023 RTC clearly isn't the type that's going to back down, they're going to double down and have an answer for everything. The only way they'll go away is if they're ignored, which is what I'm going to do from here on out. 6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
same_ol_g35 Posted September 19, 2023 Share Posted September 19, 2023 Thought I'd take a break at work to catch up with what's happening at Clyde. I now wish I hadn't bothered. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fandabbywee78 Posted September 19, 2023 Share Posted September 19, 2023 (edited) 32 minutes ago, Right turn Clyde said: Oh yes, the fact he is a volunteer and suffering from depression is now a stick to beat me with. This is why we are bottom of the league....we pick the wrong foe, time and time again and the Board love it..."divide and conquer" is exactly what they want. I genuinely do empathise with him regarding his depression as I have been there myself many years ago and it is a very lonely frightening place. But, those close to him should not have let him put himself out there on media, where criticism will exist. I do have to say that the recent comments were probably wrong of me as I had begun to recognise some symptoms of depression in his body language....so yes, having reflected as you suggest, that was wrong of me not to back off. Not sure referring to him as "dopey" in a communication with our very own Arthur Montford, who had been goading me, was enough to tip him over the edge.....but I apologise if I have added to his anxiety. Not a stick to beat you with but perhaps just don’t be awful to people online. It’s not difficult. Having been through it yourself then you would understand how damaging continuous derogatory comments can be to someone’s psyche. For all you know that platform may have been an outlet for that person, so to criticise his friends and family for allowing him to do it is just reaching. Again if you “recognised” from body language that he was suffering from depression (absolutely amazing skill bytheway!) then calling him a clown or any name was awful behaviour. You can’t determine what comment and when could have an effect on someone. Again experience of the condition itself should tell you that. Hopefully he accepts your apology and you recognise not to target individuals online in future. Edited September 19, 2023 by fandabbywee78 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Right turn Clyde Posted September 19, 2023 Share Posted September 19, 2023 29 minutes ago, fandabbywee78 said: Not a stick to beat you with but perhaps just don’t be awful to people online. It’s not difficult. Having been through it yourself then you would understand how damaging continuous derogatory comments can be to someone’s psyche. For all you know that platform may have been an outlet for that person, so to criticise his friends and family for allowing him to do it is just reaching. Again if you “recognised” from body language that he was suffering from depression (absolutely amazing skill bytheway!) then calling him a clown or any name was awful behaviour. You can’t determine what comment and when could have an effect on someone. Again experience of the condition itself should tell you that. Hopefully he accepts your apology and you recognise not to target individuals online in future. Well I cant promise that...there's the Board to deal with ....... I hope you feed your white charger well tonight and the air is pure in the moral high ground in which you seem to exist....... I just don't believe in indulging people when they hide behind volunteer status....but yes, I agree I did start to recognise some signs in his demeanour and should have left him to it, but we've kind of been at it for a while, I just did not see a weakness recently and attack him. Others have done plenty for the club, myself included and have suffered their money being taken by the club without hesitation, but not been excused from abuse, criticism and ridicule....bit of an ill divided world sadly. Anyhow, wouldn't it just be great to only be interested in the football again and enjoy watching a decent team and brand of football? A fair way off sadly I fear. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Right turn Clyde Posted September 19, 2023 Share Posted September 19, 2023 1 hour ago, Brian Carrigan said: RTC clearly isn't the type that's going to back down, they're going to double down and have an answer for everything. The only way they'll go away is if they're ignored, which is what I'm going to do from here on out. Delighted to have sparred with you. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fandabbywee78 Posted September 19, 2023 Share Posted September 19, 2023 44 minutes ago, Right turn Clyde said: Well I cant promise that...there's the Board to deal with ....... I hope you feed your white charger well tonight and the air is pure in the moral high ground in which you seem to exist....... I just don't believe in indulging people when they hide behind volunteer status....but yes, I agree I did start to recognise some signs in his demeanour and should have left him to it, but we've kind of been at it for a while, I just did not see a weakness recently and attack him. Others have done plenty for the club, myself included and have suffered their money being taken by the club without hesitation, but not been excused from abuse, criticism and ridicule....bit of an ill divided world sadly. Anyhow, wouldn't it just be great to only be interested in the football again and enjoy watching a decent team and brand of football? A fair way off sadly I fear. You state repeatedly that people need to take their anger out on the right individuals, but this part of your post is telling. You say you noticed signs of depression, but because you say it's been going on a while it's OK in trying to justify your behaviour. You're an adult so I’d suggest leave it, grow up and more importantly move on for your own, and others’ you clearly wish to aggrevate, sake. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Right turn Clyde Posted September 19, 2023 Share Posted September 19, 2023 1 minute ago, fandabbywee78 said: You state repeatedly that people need to take their anger out on the right individuals, but this part of your post is telling. You say you noticed signs of depression, but because you say it's been going on a while it's OK in trying to justify your behaviour. You're an adult so I’d suggest leave it, grow up and more importantly move on for your own, and others’ you clearly wish to aggrevate, sake. You are very judgemental. Noticed only recently the signs...the thing between us and my opinion on the poor quality and content of the podcast preceded the gentleman in question's current mental state. That said, I do apologise for the wek-ends comments and wish him well. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SLClyde Posted September 19, 2023 Author Share Posted September 19, 2023 The ignore function on this site is really undervalued. 9 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Right turn Clyde Posted September 19, 2023 Share Posted September 19, 2023 1 hour ago, SLClyde said: The ignore function on this site is really undervalued. Who said that? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WBR Posted September 19, 2023 Share Posted September 19, 2023 1 hour ago, SLClyde said: The ignore function on this site is really undervalued. It’s getting close to the point on this thread where, for me, a page has as many ignore notifications as it has visible posts. 8 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JIMMY CHOO Posted September 20, 2023 Share Posted September 20, 2023 12 hours ago, WBR said: It’s getting close to the point on this thread where, for me, a page has as many ignore notifications as it has visible posts. The problem with a lot of the people on this chat is that they hate hearing the truth and all the facts are unfolding in front of us. The club is rotten to the core and the fans are paying the price for all the failings and what do we all do turn on each other. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Burnsythebinman Posted September 20, 2023 Share Posted September 20, 2023 if this thread is anything like what is going on at clyde, then your f***ed. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Right turn Clyde Posted September 20, 2023 Share Posted September 20, 2023 49 minutes ago, Burnsythebinman said: if this thread is anything like what is going on at clyde, then your f***ed. it’s not quite as bad as what’s been and is going on at the Club 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
haufdaft Posted September 20, 2023 Share Posted September 20, 2023 2 hours ago, Burnsythebinman said: if this thread is anything like what is going on at clyde, then your f***ed. The thread is basically two trolls (or one with two accounts) trolling and decent Clyde fans responding rather than ignoring them. Trolls are sad insignificant people who seek any kind of attention online because no one gives a f**k about them in their everyday lives. Best solution is to ignore these trolling losers. 9 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Right turn Clyde Posted September 20, 2023 Share Posted September 20, 2023 11 minutes ago, haufdaft said: The thread is basically two trolls (or one with two accounts) trolling and decent Clyde fans responding rather than ignoring them. Trolls are sad insignificant people who seek any kind of attention online because no one gives a f**k about them in their everyday lives. Best solution is to ignore these trolling losers. How wrong you are you daft old sod! 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Right turn Clyde Posted September 20, 2023 Share Posted September 20, 2023 32 minutes ago, haufdaft said: The thread is basically two trolls (or one with two accounts) trolling and decent Clyde fans responding rather than ignoring them. Trolls are sad insignificant people who seek any kind of attention online because no one gives a f**k about them in their everyday lives. Best solution is to ignore these trolling losers. if your post was intended to upset me Haudaft as it appears it is....you sir are the definition of a troll yourself. Perhaps just better if you sit back like most and watch your club disappear..........."oh boohoo, but who will do it if the Board are gone". doesn't wash anymore. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Neilly Posted September 20, 2023 Share Posted September 20, 2023 Replied twice to the one post. This balloon isn't upset in the slightest. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brian Carrigan Posted September 20, 2023 Share Posted September 20, 2023 (edited) 3 hours ago, Neilly said: Replied twice to the one post. This balloon isn't upset in the slightest. I'll be extremely surprised if RTC doesn't reply to you explaining how he isn't upset. He'll see this post and be waiting... watching... absolutely frothing to post but knowing it'll be a mad embarrassment if he does. Then eventually he'll post about not actually being upset and if you think something like this would upset him - think again! Edited September 20, 2023 by Brian Carrigan 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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