I agree. People please take your bickering elsewhere. Ever since that maggot Reynard posted his patronising drivel the thread has been ruined. This is a serious issue that is being discussed on here that is hopefully helping someone. Sometimes just talking about how you feel can can be the best healer. If I was new to the forum then I certainly wouldn't be posting my feelings on here. Rememember this isn't a football thread etc. This thread can affect someones life and up until now it has been fantastic.