My problems with depression are slightly different, in that it's my wife with it. She has been on and off antidepressant meds for years. It's been hell at times, particularly when pregnant or just after birth but not exclusively. She can be the most amazing woman in the world, but when the depression comes back it always seems worse than the last time and it's getting harder to deal with. At first it was to do with her childhood (she was abusse