Cheers mate. It's good to hear I've helped someone out with similar problems to mine. If you want to share your story, I'll be happy like many others to help you out or you can pm me if you want to say.
Found out this afternoon my ex and this laddie are now going out. Which i knew all along but I've moved on and forgetting about her..
Seeing this post from you mate has really cheered me up. Possibly my favourite post on this site.