The pressure is really unfair. My wife ended up in hospital for the week because Julia just point blankly refused to latch in and suck. She only got out because she was giving her the wee bottles in hospital. Got home and the health visitor started on about getting her breastfed after a week my wife had to give in because both her and Julia were getting really stressed about it but that just made her feel like a failure and less of a mum, Julia on the other hand thrived. The other thing that really annoyed me was the government won't allow supermarkets etc do deals on baby formula to help promote breastfeeding, not giving a thought to kids who can't/don't want to do it.