Part of me thinks the UI idea or ballot/poll idea is overhyped by certain folks to keep others onboard.
Think most folk could live with N.I. remaining Brìtish but run along the lines of Belfast City Council.
Throw in it being more Irish Ireland N.I. ie things like a Irish Language Act and a liberal society to placate the 21st Century version of the growing middle class.
Loyal Order parades and bonfires, no problem because "themmuns" aren't actually in control of the place pre 1972 Stormont style.
From recent visits post pandemic i knew the place had changed when i saw the cops on push bikes.
Not exactly the Gaza Strip, is it!!!