bobbykdy Posted December 31, 2013 Share Posted December 31, 2013 Just tell them "no". Might not be easy but you'll feel better for it. Sage advice. I have been doing this for a few years in life in general now, whereas in the past I would just go out or do things even if it didn't really suit me. Results in people sometimes getting a bit pissed off but if you don't then you end up keeping everyone else but yourself happy. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DA Baracus Posted December 31, 2013 Share Posted December 31, 2013 I'll say it now as I'll likely be a bit pissed later and will end up posting a long winding essay with superflous big words in it, so all the best to you cuntos and hope we all get sorted and move on to better things in the new year. I'm serious about the decadent Dundee dirties night out by the way. Well up for that. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RH33 Posted December 31, 2013 Share Posted December 31, 2013 Guys, careful with alcohol and low mood especially if you are on medication. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RandomGuy. Posted December 31, 2013 Share Posted December 31, 2013 Guys, careful with alcohol and low mood especially if you are on medication. Your avatar should really have been Butters 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RH33 Posted December 31, 2013 Share Posted December 31, 2013 Eh? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RandomGuy. Posted December 31, 2013 Share Posted December 31, 2013 Eh? It just sounded like Butters in my head 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RH33 Posted December 31, 2013 Share Posted December 31, 2013 I've no idea who or what Butters is! 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest The Phoenix Posted December 31, 2013 Share Posted December 31, 2013 I've no idea who or what Butters is! Ya daftie. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NotThePars Posted December 31, 2013 Share Posted December 31, 2013 More like a rebranded Towelie than Butters IMO, RandomGuy. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RH33 Posted December 31, 2013 Share Posted December 31, 2013 Ya daftie. You're still around oldie?! 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest The Phoenix Posted December 31, 2013 Share Posted December 31, 2013 You're still around oldie?! Nope. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RH33 Posted December 31, 2013 Share Posted December 31, 2013 Nope. Shite that means I'm psychotic now too then! 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RandomGuy. Posted December 31, 2013 Share Posted December 31, 2013 More like a rebranded Towelie than Butters IMO, RandomGuy. Yes! 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest The Phoenix Posted December 31, 2013 Share Posted December 31, 2013 Shite that means I'm psychotic now too then! Join the rest of us on here. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
P.C Posted December 31, 2013 Share Posted December 31, 2013 Hope its a good new year for everyone. Hopefully pull a drunk dirty later to kick off 2014 in good fashion 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sergeant Wilson Posted December 31, 2013 Share Posted December 31, 2013 Hope its a good new year for everyone. Hopefully pull a drunk dirty later to kick off 2014 in good fashion Ho do you think he or she will feel about that in the morning? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Unleash The Nade Posted January 1, 2014 Share Posted January 1, 2014 Hope everyone has a good 2014 Most importantly , paint your life with your own colours , not those others want you to 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lyle Lanley Posted January 2, 2014 Share Posted January 2, 2014 (edited) Evening folks Feeling a lot better in the last few days and it's the Derby tonight Found out this afternoon my mate has been making up shite about me and a few others (including my ex) in the past 2 months. Edited January 2, 2014 by Eoin Doyle 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NotThePars Posted January 2, 2014 Share Posted January 2, 2014 Of course he's going to do that. You're his girlfriend's ex and you're still featured fairly prominently in his life because of the football. Just take it on the chin and laugh at the fact that he's threatened enough by you to sit and do it. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sarto Mutiny Posted January 2, 2014 Share Posted January 2, 2014 Posting here feels a bit weird, but at this stage I am not sure what else to do. My recent moods have been so up and down that it’s starting to scare me. Sometimes I feel fine, if a little disconnected from the rest of the world. But sometimes I go through wee phases of horrible lows. They generally pass quite quickly, but usually these periods are really intense. I feel short bursts of feeling utterly hopeless to the point of having suicidal thoughts, although I cannot see myself ever acting on those thoughts. I feel paranoid and I lash out at everyone around me. I don’t really want to know what’s going on as I think the effect on my family would be awful if I was found to have depression, or something else. I don’t really want to let the genie out if the bottle and I would rather try and manage it myself, although I am not sure if I can or if that’s in any way healthy. The thing that really bothers me is that there’s nothing going on in my life to cause this. My job is dull but tolerable, it’s not in any danger, I have enough friends and family around me to not feel lonely, and I have no money worries. I have felt like this in the past, but it’s been triggered by a specific event and usually manifests itself with self-destructive behaviour – which usually involves me alienating myself from everyone around me. Also, today for the first time in years I started self harming. I did self-harm a bit around the age of 20, but that was triggered by a specific traumatic event in my life at the time. This wasn’t, which terrifies me. I don’t know what to do as I think this is getting worse. I really don’t know where to go from here. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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