throbber Posted August 3 Share Posted August 3 21 hours ago, velo army said: I don't want to derail the thread, but this kind of stuff gets too readily mixed in with paedophilia and another poster further back described fancying 20 year old as sick. It's simply not and is often both healthy and more common than we think. Sexual attraction isn't a simple procreative motivation either, it's a desire to merge and connect. The key is consent. It's the reason why we have the laws we do (the key wording is age of consent, rather than age of biological capability). Desiring to have sex with anyone isn't wrong, regardless of age, but it's especially not wrong if they're both fine with it, even with bigger age differences. Seeing this post in the cruel light of day after a heavy night out 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
velo army Posted August 3 Share Posted August 3 If you have something of substance aside from a visceral disgust that you have no interest in investigating (and are consequently treating as completely real and true) then I'm happy to hear it. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
throbber Posted August 3 Share Posted August 3 2 minutes ago, velo army said: If you have something of substance aside from a visceral disgust that you have no interest in investigating (and are consequently treating as completely real and true) then I'm happy to hear it. You are a paedophile sympathiser. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
welshbairn Posted August 3 Share Posted August 3 22 hours ago, velo army said: Desiring to have sex with anyone isn't wrong, regardless of age, but it's especially not wrong if they're both fine with it, even with bigger age differences. I'm not sure if you'd be be top of my list if I needed a babysitter. 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
velo army Posted August 3 Share Posted August 3 f**king hell lads. You're both twisting my "nothing essentially wrong with a 60 year old having sex with a 20 year old" to mean "shagging kids is absolutely fine". I felt I was completely clear, but with you two, in future, I'll use much simpler language and smaller words. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
throbber Posted August 3 Share Posted August 3 8 minutes ago, velo army said: f**king hell lads. You're both twisting my "nothing essentially wrong with a 60 year old having sex with a 20 year old" to mean "shagging kids is absolutely fine". I felt I was completely clear, but with you two, in future, I'll use much simpler language and smaller words. In the good old days of this forum you would be absolutely hounded for this. My initial post said it was enough of a red flag for a 60 year old to be messaging numerous men 40 years younger than him with sexually explicit images and you said there was no issue with that? Are you actually serious? He ended up with category A child pornography on his phone from this pattern of predatory behaviour. There is absolutely everything wrong with 60 year olds having dirty chats with 20 year olds it is blatant noncery. I take it you have no issue with what Philip Schofield did either? What about Russel brand having a 16 year old girlfriend when he was 30? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
throbber Posted August 3 Share Posted August 3 18 minutes ago, velo army said: "shagging kids is absolutely fine". Imagine Even typing this out as well. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
No_Problemo Posted August 3 Share Posted August 3 A sixty year old, sleeping with a twenty year old seems pretty f**king creepy to me tbh. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
throbber Posted August 3 Share Posted August 3 1 minute ago, No_Problemo said: A sixty year old, sleeping with a twenty year old seems pretty f**king creepy to me tbh. It’s not just the intercourse it’s the creepy exchanging of dirty pics - do people not just crack off to xhamster? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mathematics Posted August 3 Share Posted August 3 8 minutes ago, throbber said: do people not just crack off to xhamster? Or into bins? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
throbber Posted August 3 Share Posted August 3 Just now, mathematics said: Or into bins? I was young at the time but certainly no excusing that. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miguel Sanchez Posted August 3 Share Posted August 3 26 minutes ago, throbber said: In the good old days of this forum Where do I get my "I've spent enough time on P&B to see throbber turn into the morality police" tshirt? 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
throbber Posted August 3 Share Posted August 3 Just now, Miguel Sanchez said: Where do I get my "I've spent enough time on P&B to see throbber turn into the morality police" tshirt? In this a backhanded compliment? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miguel Sanchez Posted August 3 Share Posted August 3 1 minute ago, throbber said: In this a backhanded compliment? It was an observation. You can take it as a compliment if you want. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
throbber Posted August 3 Share Posted August 3 2 minutes ago, Miguel Sanchez said: It was an observation. You can take it as a compliment if you want. It’s true tho - look at the words he actually typed out in quotation marks above. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
velo army Posted August 3 Share Posted August 3 Again. f**king hell. You've gotten massively triggered here and you've now gone beyond wilful misinterpretation of my remarks (that a relationship between a 60 year old and a 20 year old isn't inherently problematic, and please look up the word "inherently" and, while you're at it, the function of quotation marks before you think of responding) into deliberate miscontextualisation. I won't try and convince you as you've already demonstrated that you have no intention of shifting from your place of limbic activation. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
throbber Posted August 3 Share Posted August 3 5 minutes ago, velo army said: Again. f**king hell. You've gotten massively triggered here and you've now gone beyond wilful misinterpretation of my remarks (that a relationship between a 60 year old and a 20 year old isn't inherently problematic, and please look up the word "inherently" and, while you're at it, the function of quotation marks before you think of responding) into deliberate miscontextualisation. I won't try and convince you as you've already demonstrated that you have no intention of shifting from your place of limbic activation. You behaved disgracefully. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
throbber Posted August 3 Share Posted August 3 On 02/08/2024 at 14:02, velo army said: Desiring to have sex with anyone isn't wrong, regardless of age, . 23 hours ago, velo army said: People can enjoy each other sexually regardless of age 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
welshbairn Posted August 3 Share Posted August 3 As a sometimes broke teenager between agency jobs in Amsterdam I was told of an old guy who offered to buy you 10 beers if you went back to his flat after and pissed all over him. Not sure if I'd have agreed or not, but pretty sure it wasn't Huw, he'd have been a lot younger then. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carpetmonster Posted August 3 Share Posted August 3 8 minutes ago, welshbairn said: As a sometimes broke teenager between agency jobs in Amsterdam I was told of an old guy who offered to buy you 10 beers if you went back to his flat after and pissed all over him. Not sure if I'd have agreed or not, but pretty sure it wasn't Huw, he'd have been a lot younger then. Maybe he just liked warm Heineken, it wouldn’t taste any different. -1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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