First of all, I said I didn't agree with @Enigma take on @Dele posting personal things about his life on P&B. I've done the very same myself.
Secondly, where did I say "a woman wearing a short skirt is asking to be raped"? I didn't, and I certainly wouldn't say that, extreme case as it is. However, pointing out that getting parallegically drunk, losing your friends and passing out in the street is likely to increase the likelihood of something bad happening to you shouldn't be confused with victim blaming.
Victim blaming and assessing situational risks aren't the same thing. Hence why I said they weren't mutually exclusive. There was an advert campaign in the UK recommending this to women about 10 years ago.
In a perfect utopia nobody would bring harm to anyone but that's not the World we live in. Even more so for women sadly.