Leaving stuff lying on the sofa, meaning I've got to move stuff to get a seat. Chucked a load of stuff where she sits tonight though, leaving her with no option but to tidy it up. Someone mentioned not tidying up after preparing meals. Yep, that happens here as well. Various pots, cutlery, sauces, empty packets, pieces of veg, etc lying everywhere while we sit down to eat, without a hint of even putting anything in the sink to soak.