Melanius Mullarkey Posted November 1, 2021 Share Posted November 1, 2021 1 minute ago, Rugster said: I was at a humanist funeral a few years ago and the celebrant opened with “Angie was well known for three things: shoes, hair and tits.” It was a good service. The way it should be. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clockwork Posted November 1, 2021 Share Posted November 1, 2021 Unfortunately been to a few in recent years. Find it puzzling afterwards when friends or family comment in disappointment, that the Minister, Priest or Vicar ‘clearly didn’t know Robert very well’, (given their scripted eulogy to the departed). All very solemn and pious.‘Aye that’s probably true Missus, because like you and the rest of us gathered, the old boy never set foot in the place since he was Christened here’! 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ross. Posted November 1, 2021 Share Posted November 1, 2021 Humanist funerals are infinitely better than any religious ceremony I have attended. That said, I was at one last week and the celebrant made a comment about the deceased’s “30 years of happy marriage” which caused a few whiplash injuries as we all turned to look at each other in disbelief. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shahid khan Posted November 3, 2021 Share Posted November 3, 2021 I had never been to a funeral until my Grans in 2014. Then in the following 15 months, I had then attended my Granda's and my Dad's. The Co-op even gave us a discount for my Dad's! Seriously. My Mum chose a humanist ceremony for my Dad. We met the guy who would be conducting it in a Wetherspoons in Greenock. He suggested we should write down some anecdotes and he would read the best ones out at the funeral. We got together with my sister and a few of his mates and we wrote down several memories. What a day/night this was, absolutely tremendous despite the awful circumstances. The guy spoke for a good 25 minutes, No hymns or prayers. A fitting send off. Awful couple of years though! 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Archie McSquackle Posted November 3, 2021 Share Posted November 3, 2021 I'm over 60 and live in an area populated by retirees and assorted coffin dodgers and get regular junk mail about 'meals to your door' or 'disabled showers' or 'DIY hip replacements using dental adhesive' - ok so I made that last one up but you get the point. Today's missive was from Pure Cremation who, for about £1,700 , will collect your cold, dead body and then burn it and either scatter your ashes somewhere in England or put them in an urn and send them back to your loved ones. No ceremony needed or wanted. Sounds like the perfect option for you.I have no idea about the costs of these things but that seems a lot for a no-frills cremation. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zen Archer (Raconteur) Posted November 3, 2021 Share Posted November 3, 2021 4 minutes ago, Archie McSquackle said: On 22/10/2021 at 01:07, The_Kincardine said: I'm over 60 and live in an area populated by retirees and assorted coffin dodgers and get regular junk mail about 'meals to your door' or 'disabled showers' or 'DIY hip replacements using dental adhesive' - ok so I made that last one up but you get the point. Today's missive was from Pure Cremation who, for about £1,700 , will collect your cold, dead body and then burn it and either scatter your ashes somewhere in England or put them in an urn and send them back to your loved ones. No ceremony needed or wanted. Sounds like the perfect option for you. I have no idea about the costs of these things but that seems a lot for a no-frills cremation. Quote In England the average cost of cremation is £831. In Scotland it is £815, whereas in Wales it is significantly cheaper at £741. However, Northern Ireland is the cheapest area of the UK for a cremation, with an average cost of £392. The most expensive region is the South West of England, where the average cost of cremation is £884. Surprisingly, London is the cheapest region of England for cremation, with an average cost of £755. This is possibly because 63% of crematoriums in London are owned by local councils, rather than private providers. Cremation & Burial Costs in the UK (2020) - Funeral Guide 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melanius Mullarkey Posted November 3, 2021 Share Posted November 3, 2021 2 minutes ago, Zen Archer (Raconteur) said: Cremation & Burial Costs in the UK (2020) - Funeral Guide Plenty bonfires in NI I suppose. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peasy23 Posted November 3, 2021 Share Posted November 3, 2021 Plenty bonfires in NI I suppose.As long as you die at the right time of year. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tamthebam Posted November 4, 2021 Share Posted November 4, 2021 On 03/11/2021 at 20:18, Melanius Mullarkey said: Plenty bonfires in NI I suppose. Paisley's of Belfast, Undertakers: We offer funeral packages to suit every pallet... @Jacksgranda Genuine question: I'm now wondering if you have ecumenical undertakers over there or ones that solely cater to either community? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jacksgranda Posted November 5, 2021 Share Posted November 5, 2021 8 hours ago, tamthebam said: Paisley's of Belfast, Undertakers: We offer funeral packages to suit every pallet... @Jacksgranda Genuine question: I'm now wondering if you have ecumenical undertakers over there or ones that solely cater to either community? Most undertakers cater for "both" sides, but most are predominately one or the other. I've never heard of anyone being turned away. Most folk would know which undertaker to contact to suit their particular denomination. A mate of mine once joked that he and his RC mate should set up as undertakers - they both had the demeanour - and clean up. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
milton75 Posted November 9, 2021 Share Posted November 9, 2021 On 22/10/2021 at 21:34, MuckleMoo said: On 22/10/2021 at 19:23, maicoman said: Coming back from work today the traffic was really slow A couple of minutes later we found out why It was 2 black horses pulling a glass carraige with a coffin in it heading to the cemetery Have never seen this before apart from on tv There's one in Dundee that does the rounds on a fairly regular basis, spotted last week. On 22/10/2021 at 21:48, Melanius Mullarkey said: Is it lost? Probably due to all the circles they have there. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maicoman Posted December 12, 2021 Share Posted December 12, 2021 Driving up to Glasgow yesterday morning was surprized how quiet the road was until i hit the dual carriage way Could see the rear car lights half a mile up the road at Johnstone It had suddenly got really busy On to the outside lane to overtake them kind of clicked on after the cars there was a lot of lorries Then clicked on they were not pulling trailers Thought they must be on a way to a show then i am going to myself it is a funny time of year to hold a show Then i noticed the hearse behind the leading lorry with the coffin strapped on to the lorry trailer 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sergeant Wilson Posted December 12, 2021 Share Posted December 12, 2021 2 hours ago, maicoman said: Driving up to Glasgow yesterday morning was surprized how quiet the road was until i hit the dual carriage way Could see the rear car lights half a mile up the road at Johnstone It had suddenly got really busy On to the outside lane to overtake them kind of clicked on after the cars there was a lot of lorries Then clicked on they were not pulling trailers Thought they must be on a way to a show then i am going to myself it is a funny time of year to hold a show Then i noticed the hearse behind the leading lorry with the coffin strapped on to the lorry trailer They usually just bury the bodies in a shallow grave at the roadside. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jacksgranda Posted December 12, 2021 Share Posted December 12, 2021 Allegedly 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RiffRaff Posted December 12, 2021 Share Posted December 12, 2021 My Mum's funeral was back in July and her only request was that a Steel Band played her into the Crematorium. Steel Bands not being the easiest things to find in East Lothian she had to do with band doing a version of One Love via Spotify. There was no religious content at all, I stood up and said a bit and my eldest daughter also said a few words, she went for the humorous tales. Both speeches were interspersed with music that my Mum enjoyed. Due to restrictions there weren't too many folk there though one of them did say that they had never been to a funeral like it before. I took this as a compliment. Simple but effective. It is what she would have wanted. 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fullerene Posted December 16, 2021 Share Posted December 16, 2021 On 12/12/2021 at 20:37, RiffRaff said: My Mum's funeral was back in July and her only request was that a Steel Band played her into the Crematorium. Steel Bands not being the easiest things to find in East Lothian she had to do with band doing a version of One Love via Spotify. There was no religious content at all, I stood up and said a bit and my eldest daughter also said a few words, she went for the humorous tales. Both speeches were interspersed with music that my Mum enjoyed. Due to restrictions there weren't too many folk there though one of them did say that they had never been to a funeral like it before. I took this as a compliment. Simple but effective. It is what she would have wanted. I like your story. A funeral is about the person who is gone and not about who is left. It is the one time when you will get an Englishman to sing "Flower of Scotland" or a Scotsman to sing "Jerusalem" or anyone to sing "Agadoo" - and they thank you for it even if they pretend to curse you. When I'm gone, it will be "I wanna be sedated" in case anyone does not already know. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Florentine_Pogen Posted December 16, 2021 Share Posted December 16, 2021 https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2021/dec/16/obituary-viral-renay-mandel-corren-texas "Some obituary notices open with the grand achievements of a life well-lived, or the tender details of a person’s passing with loved ones at their side. The death in El Paso, Texas, of Renay Mandel Corren, however, was marked in somewhat more unorthodox fashion. “The bawdy, fertile, redheaded matriarch of a sprawling Jewish-Mexican-Redneck American family has kicked it,” it read." 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peasy23 Posted December 18, 2021 Share Posted December 18, 2021 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tamthebam Posted December 18, 2021 Share Posted December 18, 2021 3 hours ago, peasy23 said: Tragic really. He was found covered in raspberry sauce and hundreds and thousands. He'd topped himself 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peasy23 Posted December 18, 2021 Share Posted December 18, 2021 Tragic really. He was found covered in raspberry sauce and hundreds and thousands. He'd topped himself Instead of scattering his ashes, they sprinkled them. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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