BFTD Posted December 24, 2016 Share Posted December 24, 2016 Fucking depressing to read grown men discussing how they never want to get married or have kids, yet admitting they'll probably end up doing it at some point to keep someone else happy. You're mad if you go into something like that without being sure that it's what you want for the rest of your life. So many folk seem to do it too. No girl is that dirty, folks. If you don't want to commit, let her go find someone who does, and you'll be just fine. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
welshbairn Posted December 24, 2016 Share Posted December 24, 2016 5 minutes ago, BigFatTabbyDave said: No girl is that dirty, folks. And Santa is dead, Merry fucking Christmas. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sergie's no1 fan Posted December 24, 2016 Share Posted December 24, 2016 Jesus Christ. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_Kincardine Posted December 24, 2016 Share Posted December 24, 2016 19 minutes ago, BigFatTabbyDave said: If you don't want to commit, let her go find someone who does, and you'll be just fine. Piecing together a few posts I reckon you're doing really well in tricky circumstances, Dave. You certainly get my respect. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BFTD Posted December 24, 2016 Share Posted December 24, 2016 4 minutes ago, The_Kincardine said: Piecing together a few posts I reckon you're doing really well in tricky circumstances, Dave. You certainly get my respect. Mine's accumulating cardigans left, right, and centre - I should probably just STFU on the topic of marriage 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_Kincardine Posted December 24, 2016 Share Posted December 24, 2016 Just now, BigFatTabbyDave said: Mine's accumulating cardigans left, right, and centre - I should probably just STFU on the topic of marriage Nah...it goes deeper than that. You're a thoroughly decent bloke. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BFTD Posted December 24, 2016 Share Posted December 24, 2016 Just now, The_Kincardine said: Nah...it goes deeper than that. You're a thoroughly decent bloke. Your scaring me now. See, I've left you a nice typo to keep you going, and something something Sevco too 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sjc Posted December 24, 2016 Share Posted December 24, 2016 50 minutes ago, BigFatTabbyDave said: Fucking depressing to read grown men discussing how they never want to get married or have kids, yet admitting they'll probably end up doing it at some point to keep someone else happy. You're mad if you go into something like that without being sure that it's what you want for the rest of your life. So many folk seem to do it too. No girl is that dirty, folks. If you don't want to commit, let her go find someone who does, and you'll be just fine. Exactly this. I've got loads of mates that have ended up getting married to people they were in unhappy relationships with just because they didn't want to be single/on their own. How can you hate yourself so much that you'd rather live unhappily with someone instead of being on your own?! 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_Kincardine Posted December 24, 2016 Share Posted December 24, 2016 13 minutes ago, sjc said: How can you hate yourself so much that you'd rather live unhappily with someone instead of being on your own?! Lazy thinking, SJC but it takes while to know it. I'm currently living alone, have my kids staying with me (about) twice a week and have a squeeze I see 2/3 times a month and the 7 of us go out every now and then. I'm happy I have someone I get along well with. I absolutely could not live with her nor she with me. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sjc Posted December 24, 2016 Share Posted December 24, 2016 (edited) 6 minutes ago, The_Kincardine said: Lazy thinking, SJC but it takes while to know it. I'm currently living alone, have my kids staying with me (about) twice a week and have a squeeze I see 2/3 times a month and the 7 of us go out every now and then. I'm happy I have someone I get along well with. I absolutely could not live with her nor she with me. Why is it lazy thinking? You live on your own and are quite clearly happy with that. I'm on about the ones that aren't. Edited December 24, 2016 by sjc 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_Kincardine Posted December 24, 2016 Share Posted December 24, 2016 (edited) 7 minutes ago, sjc said: Why is it lazy thinking? You live on your own and are quite clearly happy with that. I'm on about the ones that aren't. " How can you hate yourself so much that you'd rather live unhappily with someone instead of being on your own" is down to lazy thinking. I was agreeing with you but expressed myself poorly. Edited December 24, 2016 by The_Kincardine 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sjc Posted December 24, 2016 Share Posted December 24, 2016 7 minutes ago, The_Kincardine said: " How can you hate yourself so much that you'd rather live unhappily with someone instead of being on your own" is down to lazy thinking. I was agreeing with you but expressed myself poorly. Not like you Kink, unless you've overdone the Christmas sherry..... 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_Kincardine Posted December 24, 2016 Share Posted December 24, 2016 3 minutes ago, sjc said: Not like you Kink, unless you've overdone the Christmas sherry..... I have a half bottle of atrociously @bennett expensive Fino sherry in the fridge that I bought last week...and am keeping cold for Xmas day despite its "drink me" Alice in Wonderland calling. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sjc Posted December 24, 2016 Share Posted December 24, 2016 (edited) 2 minutes ago, The_Kincardine said: I have a half bottle of atrociously @bennett expensive Fino sherry in the fridge that I bought last week...and am keeping cold for Xmas day despite its "drink me" Alice in Wonderland calling. Very nice. This is traditional at my Christmas family gatherings: sadly I won't be there this year for some Edited December 24, 2016 by sjc 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_Kincardine Posted December 24, 2016 Share Posted December 24, 2016 3 minutes ago, sjc said: Very nice. This is traditional at my Christmas family gatherings: sadly I won't be there this year for some No jokes about any port in a storm. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sjc Posted December 24, 2016 Share Posted December 24, 2016 Just now, The_Kincardine said: No jokes about any port in a storm. Absolutely no jokes. Otima is the ONLY port for me........regardless of the weather! 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_Kincardine Posted December 24, 2016 Share Posted December 24, 2016 1 minute ago, sjc said: Absolutely no jokes. Otima is the ONLY port for me........regardless of the weather! I always thought the best Ports were from Scots families...Cockburn, Waugh et al. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sjc Posted December 24, 2016 Share Posted December 24, 2016 1 minute ago, The_Kincardine said: I always thought the best Ports were from Scots families...Cockburn, Waugh et al. Each to their own but I prefer no sediment in my port. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_Kincardine Posted December 24, 2016 Share Posted December 24, 2016 2 minutes ago, sjc said: Each to their own but I prefer no sediment in my port. And some of us ken how to use a decanter. Long way from 'divorce' big yin. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sureiknow Posted December 24, 2016 Share Posted December 24, 2016 Divorced once. Was OK. 2nd marriage over but not divorced. Bit of advice needed. Now my 2nd wife dosent want me to make a will. As it stands if I die it all goes to her. I've got a terminal illness, maybe 2 years left at best. I want to leave half of my estate to my 3 kids. What should I do? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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