welshbairn Posted October 2, 2019 Share Posted October 2, 2019 2 minutes ago, Adam101 said: 1 in 5 married adults have had an affair, so I think it's more then likely that most folk on here will have a "pure relationship" as you put it. I wouldn't call shagging or indeed snogging behind the other parties back as a mild transgression. Would you admit it to a pollster if you had? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Busta Nut Posted October 2, 2019 Share Posted October 2, 2019 16 minutes ago, welshbairn said: I'm sure all you idealistic newly marrieds will have beautifully pure relationships for eternity, so I wouldn't worry about it. Any mild transgression, dump her, simple. Same rules for you though. Mild is the word we need to focus on. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MONKMAN Posted October 2, 2019 Share Posted October 2, 2019 Imagine turning a blind eye to your wife getting pumped when she’s away with the girls to Benidorm, just as long as she doesn’t tell you about it when she gets home. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miguel Sanchez Posted October 2, 2019 Share Posted October 2, 2019 I don't believe welshbairn is married. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
19QOS19 Posted October 2, 2019 Share Posted October 2, 2019 I used to work with a woman (wid not) who said her husband didn't mind if she played away as long as she told him about it. Just bizarre. But then she also told me (us) ** grim reading from here. You've been warned ** that he enjoyed it when he finished in her mouth and she dripped it back in to his mouth, the dirty b*****d. So that gives you an idea of how fucked up the pair of them were. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MONKMAN Posted October 2, 2019 Share Posted October 2, 2019 I don't believe welshbairn is married.I’ll take a guess at divorced, after his wife left him. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Derry Alli Posted October 2, 2019 Share Posted October 2, 2019 @19QOS19, that's enough forum for tonight, you clatty b*****d. See you all tomorrow. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miguel Sanchez Posted October 2, 2019 Share Posted October 2, 2019 4 minutes ago, 19QOS19 said: I used to work with a woman (wid not) who said her husband didn't mind if she played away as long as she told him about it. Just bizarre. But then she also told me (us) ** grim reading from here. You've been warned ** that he enjoyed it when he finished in her mouth and she dripped it back in to his mouth, the dirty b*****d. So that gives you an idea of how fucked up the pair of them were. You strike me as an extremely adventurous person. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
19QOS19 Posted October 2, 2019 Share Posted October 2, 2019 [mention=12169]19QOS19[/mention], that's enough forum for tonight, you clatty b*****d. See you all tomorrow. Aye I don't know why I shared it. Maybe to haunt everyone else like it has me for the last 14 years. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
engelbert_humperdink Posted October 2, 2019 Share Posted October 2, 2019 On 01/10/2019 at 16:04, 19QOS19 said: A kiss would be enough for me tbh. A snog or a pumping is just the same; it's a betrayal of trust. The act itself is irrelevant. I don't buy the booze excuse either for people as I think the booze just helps them to do what they really want to do. Everyone will be different and it's no one elses place to judge but me and my Mrs are on the same page with this thankfully. I don't understand why people feel the need to cheat anyway. If you don't want to be with someone, tell them. Why put them through even more hurt and f**k their trust in any other relationships they have. absolutely spot on with that, some people make it out like they were under hypnosis 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sjc Posted October 2, 2019 Share Posted October 2, 2019 32 minutes ago, 19QOS19 said: 1 hour ago, Dele said: [mention=12169]19QOS19[/mention], that's enough forum for tonight, you clatty b*****d. See you all tomorrow. Aye I don't know why I shared it. Maybe to haunt everyone else like it has me for the last 14 years. That's nothing to do with being caught out. That's a fetish lifestyle. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sjc Posted October 2, 2019 Share Posted October 2, 2019 1 hour ago, Miguel Sanchez said: I don't believe welshbairn is married. You don't believe anyone is married. Myself included! 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RawB93 Posted October 3, 2019 Share Posted October 3, 2019 3 hours ago, Miguel Sanchez said: You strike me as an extremely adventurous person. Missionary with the lights off kinda guy, IMO. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
101 Posted October 3, 2019 Share Posted October 3, 2019 8 hours ago, welshbairn said: Would you admit it to a pollster if you had? No idea, I wouldn't cheat on someone and it's hard to get into the mind of someone who would. But the online polls are good and getting you to answer things you might not in person. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
19QOS19 Posted October 3, 2019 Share Posted October 3, 2019 Missionary with the lights off kinda guy, IMO.Nah I'm a bit less boring than that. But I wouldn't put that stuff in my mouth for any amount of money in the world. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
19QOS19 Posted October 3, 2019 Share Posted October 3, 2019 Judgemental much?! They sound like swingers in a relationship that works for them. Also snowballing isn’t that unusual. Christ you have an aneurism at some stuff I’ve done if you think that’s extreme [emoji23] I doubt those viewing this thread who have maybe strayed for a whole variety of reasons are likely to comment. We don’t live in a perfect world, people makes mistakes and how that couple deal with it is their business only. Whether you decide to speak to the person who’s being cheated on is your choice dictated by your relationship with that person. Nah they weren't swingers. Given the details she gave she would have said. Just an odd couple. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FuzzyBear Posted October 3, 2019 Share Posted October 3, 2019 10 minutes ago, Rowan said: Christ you have an aneurism at some stuff I’ve done if you think that’s extreme You know the rules - Pics or GTF 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BFTD Posted October 3, 2019 Share Posted October 3, 2019 he enjoyed it when he finished in her mouth and she dripped it back in to his mouthThat's beautiful, man. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Honest_Man#1 Posted October 3, 2019 Share Posted October 3, 2019 Going completely off track here. What people choose (huge emphasis on that word) to do is absolutely their business and shouldn’t be judged for it. The point of the thread was people doing stuff behind the back of their partner, and the partner not being given the knowledge to make their choice on what to do with it. Completely different scenarios. -1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BFTD Posted October 3, 2019 Share Posted October 3, 2019 The whole thread is people being judgemental. Not sure why you've taken such an issue with what I've said. You've opened up a big ol' can of worms here, matey.Anyway, followers of the Politics shitforum will have been delighted to see the word 'aneurysm' getting an airing... 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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