The pieces in bold are just out and out transphobia and you should be embarrassed for parroting the horrendous language of the New Statesman lot who peddle this quasi-alt right gender essentialist bullshit.
*Trans-exclusionary radical feminists are the people that are being criticised and it's not "for daring to say that trans women don't feel the same disadvantages as women grow up with". Not all cis women experience the same disadvantages growing up whether because of their sexual orientation, ethnicity, nationality, class or religion and it's stupidly ignorant to suggest that trans people don't experience discrimination even before they transition. Plus even outside of their socialisation growing up they experience horrendous abuse and stigmatisation which leads to trans women of colour having a life expectancy of 35 and 30% of trans women attempting suicide.
Seriously, jmo, put down your copy of the New Statesman and start reading better shit otherwise you're just going to be stuck with the rest of the Blairite slugs wondering how you're going to get some relevance back.