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[GordonD]

Been sitting on this for the last few days as I'm still trying to get my head round it.

A few weeks ago (the same day I was told that the MRI scan on my leg was clear) I was sent for a chest X-ray. That came back saying that there was a nodule on my lung so I had a CT scan. On Wednesday of last week I was told that it was malignant and that the cancer cells from the sarcoma on my leg had spread after all. Apparently until now they've been too small to see, which is why my previous scans came back negative. It also means they've grown large enough in the space of three or four months.

On Friday I saw another specialist who said I'm going to need chemotherapy. It's going to be up to six treatments, at intervals of about three weeks. I haven't been given a start date yet but likely to be in the next fortnight or so.

Not looking forward to the potential side-effects, which can include hair loss, sickness and diarrhoea though hopefully they can supply drugs to minimise that. Tamthebam pointed out that as a former Meadowbank Thistle supporter I should be used to that - thanks, Tam!

Since I was told I've been oscillating between trying to keep a positive attitude and then thinking, "What's the point in planning anything?" It does help to talk about it so I'm going to contact the Macmillan support group I've seen advertising on TV, as well as the Maggie centre at the hospital.

[Rugster]

6 minutes ago, GordonD said:

Been sitting on this for the last few days as I'm still trying to get my head round it.

A few weeks ago (the same day I was told that the MRI scan on my leg was clear) I was sent for a chest X-ray. That came back saying that there was a nodule on my lung so I had a CT scan. On Wednesday of last week I was told that it was malignant and that the cancer cells from the sarcoma on my leg had spread after all. Apparently until now they've been too small to see, which is why my previous scans came back negative. It also means they've grown large enough in the space of three or four months.

On Friday I saw another specialist who said I'm going to need chemotherapy. It's going to be up to six treatments, at intervals of about three weeks. I haven't been given a start date yet but likely to be in the next fortnight or so.

Not looking forward to the potential side-effects, which can include hair loss, sickness and diarrhoea though hopefully they can supply drugs to minimise that. Tamthebam pointed out that as a former Meadowbank Thistle supporter I should be used to that - thanks, Tam!

Since I was told I've been oscillating between trying to keep a positive attitude and then thinking, "What's the point in planning anything?" It does help to talk about it so I'm going to contact the Macmillan support group I've seen advertising on TV, as well as the Maggie centre at the hospital.

All the best mate. Maggies are absolutely incredible as are MacMillan. Get in touch with MacMillan Citizens advice too they will ensure you get every possible benefit available to you. Stay positive. 

[sophia]

Best wishes to you @GordonD 

['WellDel]

3 minutes ago, GordonD said:

Been sitting on this for the last few days as I'm still trying to get my head round it.

A few weeks ago (the same day I was told that the MRI scan on my leg was clear) I was sent for a chest X-ray. That came back saying that there was a nodule on my lung so I had a CT scan. On Wednesday of last week I was told that it was malignant and that the cancer cells from the sarcoma on my leg had spread after all. Apparently until now they've been too small to see, which is why my previous scans came back negative. It also means they've grown large enough in the space of three or four months.

On Friday I saw another specialist who said I'm going to need chemotherapy. It's going to be up to six treatments, at intervals of about three weeks. I haven't been given a start date yet but likely to be in the next fortnight or so.

Not looking forward to the potential side-effects, which can include hair loss, sickness and diarrhoea though hopefully they can supply drugs to minimise that. Tamthebam pointed out that as a former Meadowbank Thistle supporter I should be used to that - thanks, Tam!

Since I was told I've been oscillating between trying to keep a positive attitude and then thinking, "What's the point in planning anything?" It does help to talk about it so I'm going to contact the Macmillan support group I've seen advertising on TV, as well as the Maggie centre at the hospital.

Shit mate, really sorry to hear that. 

Reading all your posts throughout your ongoing treatment to your leg, you've come across as very positive and determined. I can't imagine how much of a blow your latest news must have been, but you have the character and courage to take it head on and beat the b*****d. 

Lean on all the help you can get from the places you've mentioned above, there's some fantastic support out there from emotional support to advice on money worries and benefits. For venting and the odd bit of light relief you also have us arseholes on here as well!! Very best wishes to you.

[BFTD]

20 minutes ago, GordonD said:

Been sitting on this for the last few days as I'm still trying to get my head round it.

A few weeks ago (the same day I was told that the MRI scan on my leg was clear) I was sent for a chest X-ray. That came back saying that there was a nodule on my lung so I had a CT scan. On Wednesday of last week I was told that it was malignant and that the cancer cells from the sarcoma on my leg had spread after all. Apparently until now they've been too small to see, which is why my previous scans came back negative. It also means they've grown large enough in the space of three or four months.

On Friday I saw another specialist who said I'm going to need chemotherapy. It's going to be up to six treatments, at intervals of about three weeks. I haven't been given a start date yet but likely to be in the next fortnight or so.

Not looking forward to the potential side-effects, which can include hair loss, sickness and diarrhoea though hopefully they can supply drugs to minimise that. Tamthebam pointed out that as a former Meadowbank Thistle supporter I should be used to that - thanks, Tam!

Since I was told I've been oscillating between trying to keep a positive attitude and then thinking, "What's the point in planning anything?" It does help to talk about it so I'm going to contact the Macmillan support group I've seen advertising on TV, as well as the Maggie centre at the hospital.

Sorry Gordon. Give yourself a break and bear in mind that the only important thing is working through your treatment and recovering. Don't try to struggle on like normal, you'll need plenty of rest time to recuperate. Every chance that the treatment will kill off the wee b*****ds, so try to distract yourself from worrying about it.

[Venti]

42 minutes ago, GordonD said:

Been sitting on this for the last few days as I'm still trying to get my head round it.

A few weeks ago (the same day I was told that the MRI scan on my leg was clear) I was sent for a chest X-ray. That came back saying that there was a nodule on my lung so I had a CT scan. On Wednesday of last week I was told that it was malignant and that the cancer cells from the sarcoma on my leg had spread after all. Apparently until now they've been too small to see, which is why my previous scans came back negative. It also means they've grown large enough in the space of three or four months.

On Friday I saw another specialist who said I'm going to need chemotherapy. It's going to be up to six treatments, at intervals of about three weeks. I haven't been given a start date yet but likely to be in the next fortnight or so.

Not looking forward to the potential side-effects, which can include hair loss, sickness and diarrhoea though hopefully they can supply drugs to minimise that. Tamthebam pointed out that as a former Meadowbank Thistle supporter I should be used to that - thanks, Tam!

Since I was told I've been oscillating between trying to keep a positive attitude and then thinking, "What's the point in planning anything?" It does help to talk about it so I'm going to contact the Macmillan support group I've seen advertising on TV, as well as the Maggie centre at the hospital.

Cant imagine what you're going through.

Stay strong.

Remember there's a bunch of folk on here who can lend an ear.

[Jacksgranda]

On 05/08/2023 at 08:23, Granny Danger said:

I wonder if these people have kids, or will have kids in the future, and give any thought to the potential trauma that will be caused to a teenager when their friends might access intimate pictures of their mum (or dad).  After all these images could be around for years to come.

 

 

I would doubt it, those sort of unintended consequences never enter your head at that age, the thought that internet images are there for eternity would never impinge on their consciousness, I'd imagine.

[Jacksgranda]

2 hours ago, GordonD said:

Been sitting on this for the last few days as I'm still trying to get my head round it.

A few weeks ago (the same day I was told that the MRI scan on my leg was clear) I was sent for a chest X-ray. That came back saying that there was a nodule on my lung so I had a CT scan. On Wednesday of last week I was told that it was malignant and that the cancer cells from the sarcoma on my leg had spread after all. Apparently until now they've been too small to see, which is why my previous scans came back negative. It also means they've grown large enough in the space of three or four months.

On Friday I saw another specialist who said I'm going to need chemotherapy. It's going to be up to six treatments, at intervals of about three weeks. I haven't been given a start date yet but likely to be in the next fortnight or so.

Not looking forward to the potential side-effects, which can include hair loss, sickness and diarrhoea though hopefully they can supply drugs to minimise that. Tamthebam pointed out that as a former Meadowbank Thistle supporter I should be used to that - thanks, Tam!

Since I was told I've been oscillating between trying to keep a positive attitude and then thinking, "What's the point in planning anything?" It does help to talk about it so I'm going to contact the Macmillan support group I've seen advertising on TV, as well as the Maggie centre at the hospital.

Others can set you right on the side effects of chemotherapy, unpleasant as they may be, it's better than the alternative.

The fact they've found this fairly early gives me grounds for optimism.

It's out of your hands, I just went with the treatment and carried on as normal.

All the best.

[tamthebam]

The Crooked House: Fire rips through famed 'wonky' pub - BBC News

Historic, distinctive building is sold and suddenly goes on fire....

It's almost like Glasgow Council are on holiday in the area. 

[Salt n Vinegar]

TBH not sure where to put this. I was watching CNN to try to keep up with our old pal Trump when I heard another news item that made me think... "Eh?"

Apparently the Democrat Governor of Oregon has signed into law a measure which allows folk to fill up their own fuel tanks in service stations. Until now, it's been illegal so presumably it had to be done by staff. It doesn't make "full service" illegal, but means that premises can't charge more if the staff do it for you.

New Jersey is now the only state where you can't fill your own fuel tank.  

Don't even know why I found it so surprising... I just did!

[DA Baracus]

On 05/08/2023 at 19:59, Zen Archer (Raconteur) said:

 

 

That's grim. When is that photo from? 

Tannadice has always been a rip off for food and drink in my experience. Food at the football in Scotland is usually pretty limited and not of the highest quality.

[eindhovendee]

I am hopefully pulling out a wisdom tooth.

 

[tamthebam]

I had a Bridie at Tannadice last season and it wasn't too bad

 

[Swarley]

1 minute ago, tamthebam said:

I had a Bridie at Tannadice last season and it wasn't too bad

 

Thats not what she said.

[tamthebam]

2 minutes ago, Swarley said:

Thats not what she said.

Chance would be a fine thing. If nookie was Scottish Cup wins then I'd be Dundee 

[TxRover]

11 hours ago, Salt n Vinegar said:

TBH not sure where to put this. I was watching CNN to try to keep up with our old pal Trump when I heard another news item that made me think... "Eh?"

Apparently the Democrat Governor of Oregon has signed into law a measure which allows folk to fill up their own fuel tanks in service stations. Until now, it's been illegal so presumably it had to be done by staff. It doesn't make "full service" illegal, but means that premises can't charge more if the staff do it for you.

New Jersey is now the only state where you can't fill your own fuel tank.  

Don't even know why I found it so surprising... I just did!

It’s about time, although Oregon had moved to allowing self-service in lower population counties in recent years…at first at night and later anytime. The original ban, from 1951, was accompanied by arguments about preventing motorists from slipping on wet surfaces. Visiting there was surreal, as they bark at you getting out. The fun will be people learning to pump it themselves.

[MSU]

11 hours ago, Salt n Vinegar said:

New Jersey is now the only state where you can't fill your own fuel tank.  

I found this out the hard way. Funnily enough, though, you can fill your tank if it's diesel which makes the law even more ridiculous.

[Silvio Tattiescone]

17 hours ago, Salt n Vinegar said:

 

New Jersey is now the only state where you can't fill your own fuel tank.  

Found that out when an aggressive wee man barked "Get back in your car buddy" when I stopped to fill up. 

[hk blues]

5 hours ago, TxRover said:

It’s about time, although Oregon had moved to allowing self-service in lower population counties in recent years…at first at night and later anytime. The original ban, from 1951, was accompanied by arguments about preventing motorists from slipping on wet surfaces. Visiting there was surreal, as they bark at you getting out. The fun will be people learning to pump it themselves.

I was about to post something about that - my 1st wife lives in Oregon and I recall times when I filled up rather than the attendant doing it.  It might  have been in quieter places right enough.

Related, here we have full-service and yesterday was my 1st time to fill up.  I was a d*** and forget to open the petrol cap - when the assistant asked me to I couldn't find the lever.  Turns out it is hidden away under the driver seat and you pretty much have to open the door to get to it.  Next, I asked them to check the tyre pressure - the guy directed me to the air nozzle and wandered over, took a look at them (literally a look) and said they're fine!   Then the wife gives the chancing c*** a tip and a cheery thanks.  

 

[GordonD]

1 hour ago, hk blues said:

I was about to post something about that - my 1st wife lives in Oregon and I recall times when I filled up rather than the attendant doing it.  It might  have been in quieter places right enough.