Quentin Taranbino Posted December 21, 2013 Share Posted December 21, 2013 My friend is currently looking for someone to speak to. He isn't sure if it's depression but he is in a pretty bad place and has put on a front for years by all accounts so wants to speak to a complete stranger to see if it will help. He doesn't want to see a doctor (as he doesn't think it's making him unwell as such), he would rather see someone in person rather than on phone or online, he wants it to be someone he has never met before, and it's very unlikely he can afford any private support etc. What are his options? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aufc Posted December 21, 2013 Share Posted December 21, 2013 My friend is currently looking for someone to speak to. He isn't sure if it's depression but he is in a pretty bad place and has put on a front for years by all accounts so wants to speak to a complete stranger to see if it will help. He doesn't want to see a doctor (as he doesn't think it's making him unwell as such), he would rather see someone in person rather than on phone or online, he wants it to be someone he has never met before, and it's very unlikely he can afford any private support etc. What are his options? Tell him to join pie and bovril and discuss it herw first 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bobby Skidmarks Posted December 21, 2013 Share Posted December 21, 2013 Pretty sure Throbber is "Chuckles". Best having him on ignore. Fwiw Eion Doyle, I agree with Ruggy. It was a two month relationship. Instead of moping about it you should be shagging her pals. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sergeant Wilson Posted December 21, 2013 Share Posted December 21, 2013 Thank god, I've literally been cringing at every single post he's been making about this silly wee lassie but haven't said anything as folk will just jump all over it. Get out and pump everything you can, it's absolutely ridiculous getting this hung up on a bird FFS, you'll have countless relationships/flings/flashes in the pan and you'll look back at this and wonder what on earth you were thinking. Same, but you and Ruggy have broken the ice. She's got him on a string and it's little wonder she bailed on someone that clingy. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mattydfc Posted December 21, 2013 Share Posted December 21, 2013 She sounds like a fucking gimp anyway man. Chuck it up one of her pals that's always a great laugh 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lyle Lanley Posted December 21, 2013 Share Posted December 21, 2013 She sounds like a fucking gimp anyway man. Chuck it up one of her pals that's always a great laugh Already chatting up her mate 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wingsoverperthshire Posted December 21, 2013 Share Posted December 21, 2013 Thank god, I've literally been cringing at every single post he's been making about this silly wee lassie but haven't said anything as folk will just jump all over it. Get out and pump everything you can, it's absolutely ridiculous getting this hung up on a bird FFS, you'll have countless relationships/flings/flashes in the pan and you'll look back at this and wonder what on earth you were thinking. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lisa Cuddy Posted December 21, 2013 Share Posted December 21, 2013 i thought people on here liked me We don't call you "throbber" for nothing. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugster Posted December 21, 2013 Share Posted December 21, 2013 i thought people on here liked me I like you throbber. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ballymoneyyin Posted December 21, 2013 Share Posted December 21, 2013 'depression by throbber' on the main page. couldn't resist. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NotThePars Posted December 21, 2013 Share Posted December 21, 2013 I'll get slaughtered for this because it's the depression thread but I have to say it and it is with the best of intentions ED. You were seeing this burd for 2 months but you are reacting like it's the end of a 20 year marriage. Stop wallowing in it and get out and meet new folk. It can't be helping you. Great post. Don't buy into this whole "go f**k her pals" rubbish because it makes you look spiteful, ED. Just find a lassie that you're interested in and focus on yourself rather than how it's going to make your ex feel. I split up with my own girlfriend last month and used it as a catalyst to ask out a lassie I've been proper into for ages and now we're getting together. It all works out in the end. Haven't bothered looking back and it's really lifted my emotions to be into someone that has the same interests and is as easygoing as I am. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Real Saints Posted December 21, 2013 Share Posted December 21, 2013 'depression by throbber' on the main page. couldn't resist. Sounds like an awful aftershave. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mattydfc Posted December 22, 2013 Share Posted December 22, 2013 Great post. Don't buy into this whole "go f**k her pals" rubbish because it makes you look spiteful, ED. Just find a lassie that you're interested in and focus on yourself rather than how it's going to make your ex feel. I split up with my own girlfriend last month and used it as a catalyst to ask out a lassie I've been proper into for ages and now we're getting together. It all works out in the end. Haven't bothered looking back and it's really lifted my emotions to be into someone that has the same interests and is as easygoing as I am. You're obviously a decent guy instead of a c**t like me. Fair enough. I was sort of in the same boat as you, had a burd but we split up so i also started speaking to a girl i've fancied for months and months. Now she's my girlfriend. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NotThePars Posted December 22, 2013 Share Posted December 22, 2013 (edited) Whoops. Phone completely messed up there. Matty, judging by your posts on here I reckon you're the go to person when it comes to getting your hole. Edited December 22, 2013 by NotThePars 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KeeperDee Posted December 22, 2013 Share Posted December 22, 2013 Been single for a month and a bit, ended up going back to this girls flat on Friday and ended up spending most of Saturday and today together. What gets me is that I tend not to be able to do things with a girl and not get attached, and I feel like it's a bit soon. She's a top girl but it's almost an exact replica of a situation that happened this time last year and I had a serious crash in mood after how that ended. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mattydfc Posted December 22, 2013 Share Posted December 22, 2013 Whoops. Phone completely messed up there. Matty, judging by your posts on here I reckon you're the go to person when it comes to getting your hole. I think i have a sex addiction if im being honest. I took a girl back to mine last night but i didnt sleep with her because i have a girlfriend. Didnt even pull her, that was pretty impressive on my part as well! Anyway this thread isnt the right place to talk about this sort of thing. Hope everyone has a great christmas, god bless! Derry rule 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KeeperDee Posted December 22, 2013 Share Posted December 22, 2013 What exactly are you afraid of here? Getting attached and getting told where to go. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KeeperDee Posted December 22, 2013 Share Posted December 22, 2013 I think your going about things the wrong way here, i was like that when i was your age but now i have been with my mrs for 5 years wished i had thrown more caution to the wind and fired into as many women as possible because now even though I'm happy with the mrs would still love a go on anything else and get the feeling that i will ultimately have an affair or 2 I tend not to sleep with people who I don't go out with, and it always seems to end a bit bad when I do, so I think it's a given I'm feeling a bit iffy. Hopefully it doesn't end bad.. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YHallSaint Posted December 22, 2013 Share Posted December 22, 2013 Getting attached and getting told where to go. Think you've just got to take things as they go. Its a funny time of year at xmas for meeting birds because its nice to have someone there if your on your own.I have a mate who is similar to this and gets attached to a bird instantly and I think he scares them off. I'm the opposite at the moment. Split up with ex in September and since then I have been working my way through west Lothian's not so finest. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KeeperDee Posted December 22, 2013 Share Posted December 22, 2013 Think you've just got to take things as they go. Its a funny time of year at xmas for meeting birds because its nice to have someone there if your on your own.I have a mate who is similar to this and gets attached to a bird instantly and I think he scares them off. I'm the opposite at the moment. Split up with ex in September and since then I have been working my way through west Lothian's not so finest. My ultimate fear in life is being alone; I hate it. I haven't been single for longer than two months since I was about 14/15. It also doesn't help that I pretty much detest this time of year of year as it's probably the worst time of year for loneliness for some people and they seem to be ignored. I'll just see how it goes. She's going to Australia on Thursday for 3 weeks, so I'll see what she's like when she comes back. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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