Geronimo Posted July 2, 2015 Share Posted July 2, 2015 Just go and enjoy yourself man. I'm sure you'll be fine. Thanks. I'm sure once I'm there and into the swing of things I'll calm down. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WFAANW Posted July 2, 2015 Share Posted July 2, 2015 Going to my first big party tonight. Anxiety and nervousness are through the roof. Remember the bouncy castle is for children so try and stay off it. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BFTD Posted July 3, 2015 Share Posted July 3, 2015 Remember the bouncy castle is for children so try and stay off it. Bit cheap to take a dig at Geronimo's maw while he's anxious anyway, no? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
philpy Posted July 4, 2015 Share Posted July 4, 2015 My mum and my wife had a big bust-up on Monday night. The wife was the main instigator, but refuses to accept it. They fell out about something over the phone, so my mum and dad decided to drive over from Fife to sort things out, but my wife wouldn't let them in, so I tried to be the peacemaker, I managed to get the 2 of them in the same room, but it wasn't very civil. I ended up going for a walk for about 3 hours, switched my phone off and when I switched it back on I had umpteen messages from the wife, who was very apologetic. Me and the missus are fine, but now my mum doesn't want to speak to the wife, saying that she won't be back here, and that the wife isn't welcome at my parents' house. They have no issue with me, and it's a very awkward situation that I'm really struggling to deal with. I just can't get my head around the fact that the likes of xmas and new year will hardly be happy family celebrations, and that 2 of the most important people in my life have fallen out. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BFTD Posted July 4, 2015 Share Posted July 4, 2015 My mum and my wife had a big bust-up on Monday night. The wife was the main instigator, but refuses to accept it. They fell out about something over the phone, so my mum and dad decided to drive over from Fife to sort things out, but my wife wouldn't let them in, so I tried to be the peacemaker, I managed to get the 2 of them in the same room, but it wasn't very civil. I ended up going for a walk for about 3 hours, switched my phone off and when I switched it back on I had umpteen messages from the wife, who was very apologetic. Me and the missus are fine, but now my mum doesn't want to speak to the wife, saying that she won't be back here, and that the wife isn't welcome at my parents' house. They have no issue with me, and it's a very awkward situation that I'm really struggling to deal with. I just can't get my head around the fact that the likes of xmas and new year will hardly be happy family celebrations, and that 2 of the most important people in my life have fallen out. Aye, been there. You can't force people to get along. Either they (or she) will realise the error of her ways and do something to fix it, or it won't happen. My advice would be to keep yourself well out of it, as one or the other might well try and get you involved, and it's amazing how quickly the whole thing can suddenly become your fault Used to know a laddie who would dump girlfriends if they got along with his parents. Bizarre behaviour IMO. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WFAANW Posted July 4, 2015 Share Posted July 4, 2015 My mum and my wife had a big bust-up on Monday night. ? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lyle Lanley Posted July 5, 2015 Share Posted July 5, 2015 (edited) I'm on holiday for my 3rd night and have found out so much stuff. I had a breakdown Infront of my family and staff members. Im now back in my room crying eyes out. I really don't want to be here anymore . So called mates can f**k off. Everything has been destroyed. Edited July 5, 2015 by David Gray 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dee Dee Posted July 5, 2015 Share Posted July 5, 2015 ? I laughed at this more than I should've, still got the flight lieutenants now. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sergeant Wilson Posted July 5, 2015 Share Posted July 5, 2015 I'm on holiday for my 3rd night and have found out so much stuff. I had a breakdown Infront of my family and staff members. Im now back in my room crying eyes out. I really don't want to be here anymore . So called mates can f**k off. Everything has been destroyed. Well, I never seen that coming. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BFTD Posted July 5, 2015 Share Posted July 5, 2015 I'm on holiday for my 3rd night and have found out so much stuff. I had a breakdown Infront of my family and staff members. Im now back in my room crying eyes out. I really don't want to be here anymore . So called mates can f**k off. Everything has been destroyed. Keep yourself busy until the holiday's over, at least. That stuff can wait until you get home; have some fun. People are shite, unfortunately. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DA Baracus Posted July 5, 2015 Share Posted July 5, 2015 Keep yourself busy until the holiday's over, at least. That stuff can wait until you get home; have some fun. People are shite, unfortunately. Speak for yourself. I'm a delight. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DA Baracus Posted July 5, 2015 Share Posted July 5, 2015 Hows your masturbating aid doing you filthy deviant? I ruined it and had to chuck it out sadly. Back to the old hand for now. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DA Baracus Posted July 5, 2015 Share Posted July 5, 2015 FFS Aye tell me about it. I'm thinking of investing in a Fleshlight but at circa £50 that's not really in the budget this month 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ya Bezzer! Posted July 5, 2015 Share Posted July 5, 2015 My mum and my wife had a big bust-up on Monday night. The wife was the main instigator, but refuses to accept it. They fell out about something over the phone, so my mum and dad decided to drive over from Fife to sort things out, but my wife wouldn't let them in, so I tried to be the peacemaker, I managed to get the 2 of them in the same room, but it wasn't very civil. I ended up going for a walk for about 3 hours, switched my phone off and when I switched it back on I had umpteen messages from the wife, who was very apologetic. Me and the missus are fine, but now my mum doesn't want to speak to the wife, saying that she won't be back here, and that the wife isn't welcome at my parents' house. They have no issue with me, and it's a very awkward situation that I'm really struggling to deal with. I just can't get my head around the fact that the likes of xmas and new year will hardly be happy family celebrations, and that 2 of the most important people in my life have fallen out. My ex and my mum didn't speak for 3 years because my mum took a vase that the ex had put out by the bin. Women = fucking mental. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lyle Lanley Posted July 5, 2015 Share Posted July 5, 2015 Keep yourself busy until the holiday's over, at least. That stuff can wait until you get home; have some fun. People are shite, unfortunately. Been crying all afternoon and my head is thumping. Sitting at a restaurant just now and all I want to do is head to bed. I'll happily explain what's my problem through pm as I'm not blasting it on here only to get slagged off. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lyle Lanley Posted July 5, 2015 Share Posted July 5, 2015 Hey pal didn't want to read and run, as it were. Sorry you are going through a hard time, I would echo BFTD advice and try to keep busy if you can. I know this can be easier said than done tho. That's what I'm trying to do mate. Deleted my account on Facebook for a few weeks until I'm ready to go back on. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
welshbairn Posted July 5, 2015 Share Posted July 5, 2015 I'm on holiday for my 3rd night and have found out so much stuff. I had a breakdown Infront of my family and staff members. Im now back in my room crying eyes out. I really don't want to be here anymore . So called mates can f**k off. Everything has been destroyed. Let that be lesson for you, never take the staff on a family holiday, always ends in tears. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lyle Lanley Posted July 5, 2015 Share Posted July 5, 2015 Probably a good move (at least in the short term) means you won't post things in the heat of the moment etc It is. Only speaking to like 5 people now. Deleted everyone I knew on Facebook then removed my account. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bobby Skidmarks Posted July 5, 2015 Share Posted July 5, 2015 If you're not upset at your parents but your pals, then shouldn't you show them a little more respect by at least pretending you want to be on a holiday they paid for? I get you're upset with your pals, but give your mum your phone for a few days and get some breathing space. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lyle Lanley Posted July 5, 2015 Share Posted July 5, 2015 (edited) If you're not upset at your parents but your pals, then shouldn't you show them a little more respect by at least pretending you want to be on a holiday they paid for? I get you're upset with your pals, but give your mum your phone for a few days and get some breathing space. Plan is turn my phone off later for the next few days. Only use it for photos. I feel that deleting Facebook and turning my phone off I'll feel better in 2 weeks time. Edited July 5, 2015 by David Gray -1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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