sjc Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 6 minutes ago, ali_91 said: Dele posting something personal, which as has been said is one of the best things about this forum that it is a safe haven to post things semi anonymously, and having it used against him is in no way Dele’s fault, and he certainly isn’t ‘partly responsible,’ for some low life with an English team using it against him. That being said it’s not a massive deal, and my man Dele most likely doesn’t really care. It just outs Rab as a massive c**t, and Enigma as someone who has read the situation terribly. Theres a big difference between saying that some victims of crime are partially responsible, for example the below, and saying that ‘you’ve never got the victim blaming argument.’ The victim blaming argument is synonymous with rape and what a woman is wearing, and unless you think a woman wearing a short skirt is partly responsible for getting raped, you obviously do get the ‘victim blaming argument.’ First of all, I said I didn't agree with @Enigma take on @Dele posting personal things about his life on P&B. I've done the very same myself. Secondly, where did I say "a woman wearing a short skirt is asking to be raped"? I didn't, and I certainly wouldn't say that, extreme case as it is. However, pointing out that getting parallegically drunk, losing your friends and passing out in the street is likely to increase the likelihood of something bad happening to you shouldn't be confused with victim blaming. Victim blaming and assessing situational risks aren't the same thing. Hence why I said they weren't mutually exclusive. There was an advert campaign in the UK recommending this to women about 10 years ago. In a perfect utopia nobody would bring harm to anyone but that's not the World we live in. Even more so for women sadly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Honest_Man#1 Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 8 minutes ago, sjc said: In a perfect utopia nobody would bring harm to anyone but that's not the World we live in. Even more so for women sadly. Why is it (particularly in the case of women being assaulted) certain people go straight to talking about what the victim could have done differently to be safer, rather than focusing on the person actually committing the crime as the cause of it? 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sjc Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 8 minutes ago, Honest_Man#1 said: Why is it (particularly in the case of women being assaulted) certain people go straight to talking about what the victim could have done differently to be safer, rather than focusing on the person actually committing the crime as the cause of it? Who did this? I certainly never. I was pointing out the difference between victim blaming and situational risk awareness, as in crime prevention by looking at previous incidents. Unfortunately, in some previous cases the victims actions may have put them in harms way. Does this excuse the perpetrator? Of course not, but in order to learn from it, it tends to be discussed. It's the same with accident inquiries. -1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sjc Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 (edited) 11 minutes ago, ali_91 said: This is absolutely not what you said though and you’re changing the goalposts from your original comment: Yes, in that I don't get equating victim blaming to situational risk awareness. They're very different things that seem to be thrown in together when discussing rape cases. Hence my "not mutually exclusive" comment. Edited January 11, 2020 by sjc -1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ICTChris Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 This is almost the best rape related Heads Gone since Xbl said he was like a rape victim. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sergeant Wilson Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 30 minutes ago, ICTChris said: Xbl said he was like a rape victim. Sobbing, inconsolable, angry, confused? Could be any number on here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Benjamin_Nevis Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 This is almost the best rape related Heads Gone since Xbl said he was like a rape victim.Wasn't that why he was eventually banned? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bobby Skidmarks Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 5 minutes ago, Day of the Lords said: 1 hour ago, ICTChris said: This is almost the best rape related Heads Gone since Xbl said he was like a rape victim. Wasn't that why he was eventually banned? The tail end of the Best Posters thread I think. Quite the send off. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marshmallo Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 The Million Memories Poster. Some boy. -1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sjc Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 29 minutes ago, Bobby Skidmarks said: The tail end of the Best Posters thread I think. Quite the send off. Wasn't he sailing close to the wind with his exchanges with Supras.....be specific.....and all that tedium? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bobby Skidmarks Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 2 minutes ago, sjc said: Wasn't he sailing close to the wind with his exchanges with Supras.....be specific.....and all that tedium? f**k knows. I thought it was Supras and Dubs that had the ongoing tedious war. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sjc Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 (edited) 10 minutes ago, Bobby Skidmarks said: f**k knows. I thought it was Supras and Dubs that had the ongoing tedious war. You might be right. Who was Dubs again? Edited January 11, 2020 by sjc Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marshmallo Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 It was Dubs and XBL that had an ongoing feud. I loved it, great entertainment. "Shall we dance?" 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ira Gaines Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 19 hours ago, Dele said: ^^ Holla out to this boy, btw. A great laddie. I'd prefer a line was drawn under this all and we can get back to slagging one another. (Genuinely thanks though, it's been really heartwarming reading. I'm just going to go back to annoying folks now. Much love. x) Get fucked c**t Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ira Gaines Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 1 hour ago, Marshmallo said: The Million Memories Poster. Some boy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Benjamin_Nevis Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 The Million Mammaries Poster. Some boy.Ftfy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J_Stewart Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 The Million Memories Poster. Some boy.I loved the million memories poster patter. It had a fair few people that should have known better absolutely seething. The fact that xbl was mental and possibly meant every word he was saying only added to the enjoyment.Really improved my forum experience at the time. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
welshbairn Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 3 hours ago, Day of the Lords said: The Million Mammaries Poster. Some boy. That was the legendary bootsisme (sp) wasn't it? Got banned when he upped it to hundreds of fanny pics in a row instead. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sergeant Wilson Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 20 minutes ago, welshbairn said: That was the legendary bootsisme (sp) wasn't it? Got banned when he upped it to hundreds of fanny pics in a row instead. I still don't understand it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sir Tarmo Kink Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 Taken the hit and put @welshbairn & @pandarilla on my ignore list. So far it has really improved my forum experience. Next up is the Gogsys and Bennetts of this world. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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