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5 minutes ago, Miguel Sanchez said:

I'd like to thank everyone for the past few pages. Sometimes I feel bad about not having any friends and being completely intolerable to women, but reading this talk about weddings (positive and negative) is bringing me out in a rash so it's probably for the best. 

We are all your friends Miguel.

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11 hours ago, VincentGuerin said:

My missus lived in Korea as a younger lady, and she says similar things about the wedding culture there. Everyone is expected to put in a good chunk of cash, so couples basically invite everyone they've ever met and everyone their parents have ever met. It's essentially a cynical scam. Sounds fucking shite.

Says she went to two before she decided enough was enough, as her view shifted from the idealist-this-foreign-culture-is-lovely-and-quaint to the view that she was basically getting rinsed for cash by people she didn't know. Both were basically huge impersonal events with loads of people there who couldn't have had a conversation with the couple because they didn't know them, but felt compelled to attend to save face as they'd been invited so just went along and paid up.

I'd never put up with that, I object to being emailed a fucking wedding list!

the face culture is something I recon I just couldn't face - pun very much intended.  honestly I'd rather just take the fucking embarrassment than go through half of that rigmarole. Has no one ever tried that over there?

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10 hours ago, effeffsee_the2nd said:

the face culture is something I recon I just couldn't face - pun very much intended.  honestly I'd rather just take the fucking embarrassment than go through half of that rigmarole. Has no one ever tried that over there?

It's much deeper than just being embarrassed though.  It would affect somebody's standing in the local community, the family and society in general.  It's not as bad as it sounds, it's not like you're getting invited to weddings every week. 

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1 minute ago, effeffsee_the2nd said:

Universal default Saturday 3pm kick off's are a wee bit antiquated 

Falkirk are just as capable of getting beat after 12.30 or 2 pm kick offs on a Sunday as they are after a 3pm Saturday kick off you know...

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3 hours ago, Stellaboz said:

If you've heard one ACDC song, you've heard then all.

Motorhead were a bit like that too. If you like Ace of Spades, you're pretty much guaranteed to enjoy the rest of their catalogue. If it ain't broke, why fix it.

8 minutes ago, tongue_tied_danny said:

It takes Big Balls to say that.

I love AC/DC's lesser-seen strategy of using single entendres in their song titles. Kenneth would not approve.

Reminds me of this...

 

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On 25/12/2022 at 18:09, Madame RH33 said:

Christmas is shite. I fell zero connection to it at all.

 

Christmas is pure w**k! I do not say this as a shock form of look at me i'm such a bah humbug in today's fashionable misery. I mean it seriously, puting the huge commercialism to one side, It is a vocal minority that make a silent majority feel obliged to take part in something that if they could be truly honest, they're not particularly arsed about.  there will have been a huge number of people who have had to go through the motions becuase there is family and societal pressure for them to do so when they'd rather just treat it like any other day. I visted two sets of aunts and uncles who I havent seen since the exact same time last year, neither of us have made any effort to speak through the year, so why now other than because it's christmas?

If i had young children, I would obviously give them presents and would not want them feeling left out of it all, but when theyre grown up and i'm a proper auld c**t by then, then i certainly wouldn't be expecting anything from them, if they want to go thailand for a fortnight then crack on, there will be no guilt about leavin so & so by themselves at christmas!

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3 hours ago, effeffsee_the2nd said:

I visted two sets of aunts and uncles who I havent seen since the exact same time last year, neither of us have made any effort to speak through the year, so why now other than because it's christmas?

I think that's kind of the point. It gives an excuse to check in with people you'd normally feel strange contacting without good reason, and who would possibly drift out of your life permanently, something you might regret later in life.

If you really don't like them and find it too much of a hassle, tell them to f**k off and I doubt you'll hear from them again!  :P

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45 minutes ago, BFTD said:

I think that's kind of the point. It gives an excuse to check in with people you'd normally feel strange contacting without good reason, and who would possibly drift out of your life permanently, something you might regret later in life.

If you really don't like them and find it too much of a hassle, tell them to f**k off and I doubt you'll hear from them again!  :P

It's a good point you make but it is one countered by the misery that within minutes you are generally reminded of why it's been a year.

Within minutes of being exposed to selfish brexity racism (now with added WhatsApp visuals that includes the likes of a Londis sign above 10 Downing Street) the only appropriate mindset is one that involves getting out of there just as soon as possible.

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35 minutes ago, sophia said:

It's a good point you make but it is one countered by the misery that within minutes you are generally reminded of why it's been a year.

Within minutes of being exposed to selfish brexity racism (now with added WhatsApp visuals that includes the likes of a Londis sign above 10 Downing Street) the only appropriate mindset is one that involves getting out of there just as soon as possible.

I've been done with that shit for years, other than when one of P&B's multi-banned brethren fancies switching to a new account again.

Anything that saps your spirit can GTF. Nobody gets to the end of their life and thinks, "one of my greatest regrets is not spending more time listening to my gran's stories about untrustworthy <insert racial group here>".

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17 hours ago, effeffsee_the2nd said:

Christmas is pure w**k! I do not say this as a shock form of look at me i'm such a bah humbug in today's fashionable misery. I mean it seriously, puting the huge commercialism to one side, It is a vocal minority that make a silent majority feel obliged to take part in something that if they could be truly honest, they're not particularly arsed about.  there will have been a huge number of people who have had to go through the motions becuase there is family and societal pressure for them to do so when they'd rather just treat it like any other day. I visted two sets of aunts and uncles who I havent seen since the exact same time last year, neither of us have made any effort to speak through the year, so why now other than because it's christmas?

If i had young children, I would obviously give them presents and would not want them feeling left out of it all, but when theyre grown up and i'm a proper auld c**t by then, then i certainly wouldn't be expecting anything from them, if they want to go thailand for a fortnight then crack on, there will be no guilt about leavin so & so by themselves at christmas!

I largely agree with your points.

People go through the motions with some being in their element but some the opposite.

Personally, I like Christmas, but couldn’t imagine the stress if we were skint and was struggling to get anything for the kids.

Now it’s not just that, but everyone showing off Christmas pyjamas and all the rest.  Does anyone on social media have an imperfect life?  I suspect so..

How do we make it easier for the rest?  It’d involve a complete culture change, which would be very hard to achieve.

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