Hedgecutter Posted November 20, 2014 Share Posted November 20, 2014 I've not had a partner for around seven years. Just been treated like so much shoite over the years, yet I know not all men are bassas. It's just stopped me looking for anyone. Too much pain in the past. Don't give up. You will meet someone when you don't expect it! I ended up with almost all of my girlfriends during times where I stopped 'trying'. The one where I was turned out to be a psycho. Just saying. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Theo Snelders Posted November 20, 2014 Share Posted November 20, 2014 I ended up with almost all of my girlfriends during times where I stopped 'trying'. The one where I was turned out to be a psycho. Just saying. Thanks for that, feel a lot better about myself now 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lyle Lanley Posted November 20, 2014 Share Posted November 20, 2014 Found out some gossip tonight. Really don't know what to do now . -1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raidernation Posted November 21, 2014 Share Posted November 21, 2014 I'm hating having an empty house every night. Even worse, when I go back to work I'll come "home" to a dark empty nothing of a house 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hedgecutter Posted November 21, 2014 Share Posted November 21, 2014 I'm hating having an empty house every night. Even worse, when I go back to work I'll come "home" to a dark empty nothing of a house I'm still waiting on a start date for my new job and the other half has been working in Norway for just over a week. Not been nice and I can't just ask friends out for drinks every single night, all of which are at work during the day. Can't imagine this all the time, or perhaps I'm just used to having the company? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lyle Lanley Posted November 22, 2014 Share Posted November 22, 2014 My head is all over the fucking place right now. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oddly optomistic Posted November 22, 2014 Share Posted November 22, 2014 What's up? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lyle Lanley Posted November 22, 2014 Share Posted November 22, 2014 (edited) Long story mate. But i have never felt this low for a long time. Edited November 22, 2014 by Eoin Doyle 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oddly optomistic Posted November 22, 2014 Share Posted November 22, 2014 I've felt like that before so probably not much I say is going to help. But am a lot better now so sure you will be too in time. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lyle Lanley Posted November 23, 2014 Share Posted November 23, 2014 Feeling a tiny bit better but got a few massive changes i need to make. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BFTD Posted November 23, 2014 Share Posted November 23, 2014 I'm depressed. Going to start checking this forum more often. The problem is that, when you're feeling OK, the last thing you want to do is be reminded of the down times. But also, it's not fair to have a quick moan and bugger off when you're feeling better. So, I'm going to try and be less of a p***k, is what I'm saying 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raidernation Posted November 23, 2014 Share Posted November 23, 2014 Much as I really enjoyed last night, going to work Thanksgiving party. it just reminded me how much I miss the people I work with every day (one in particular but that's another story). Felt like shyte last night coming "home" to an empty house. Still trying to get over the come-down, bugger! 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Waspy Posted November 23, 2014 Share Posted November 23, 2014 Much as I really enjoyed last night, going to work Thanksgiving party. it just reminded me how much I miss the people I work with every day (one in particular but that's another story). Felt like shyte last night coming "home" to an empty house. Still trying to get over the come-down, bugger! Thanks giving party? Are you away in America? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raidernation Posted November 23, 2014 Share Posted November 23, 2014 I have lived here since 2010, married, lost. but my family is here now 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stellaboz Posted November 23, 2014 Share Posted November 23, 2014 I seem to still have bi polar tendancies. Went into a,massive self loathing mode after failing a 4th year uni part of a course. All i do when i get angry is eat and if i don't curb it, I'll end up undoing all the good hard work I've done the past 18 months in the gym and out running 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BFTD Posted November 23, 2014 Share Posted November 23, 2014 I have lived here since 2010, married, lost. but my family is here now Thanksgiving is tasty stuff. You got somewhere to cadge a free dinner? Also, I hope you took advantage of the abundance of candy corn at Halloween. I miss that stuff. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BFTD Posted November 23, 2014 Share Posted November 23, 2014 I seem to still have bi polar tendancies. Went into a,massive self loathing mode after failing a 4th year uni part of a course. All i do when i get angry is eat and if i don't curb it, I'll end up undoing all the good hard work I've done the past 18 months in the gym and out running Give yourself a day or two to be miserable and get back into the studying again, presuming you're allowed to re-take it. Take the anger out on your course, Kick it's arse! GRR!!! 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lyle Lanley Posted November 23, 2014 Share Posted November 23, 2014 I'm a fucking idiot, I'm fucking shaking. I feel like bursting into tears. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BFTD Posted November 23, 2014 Share Posted November 23, 2014 I'm a fucking idiot, I'm fucking shaking. I feel like bursting into tears. What happened? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BFTD Posted November 23, 2014 Share Posted November 23, 2014 This is my first foray into this thread I think, but having read some of the pages of this long thread, I feel I can relate to so many things I have read people say on here and though I've always been kind-of aware that at times I get depressed, I have been partially in denial and try to immerse myself in something else to take my mind off things, but all I ever do is put it to the back of my mind then once I'm done whatever I've been doing as a distraction, I find myself dwelling on the same old thing that makes me depressed when I do get down and tend to be unable to lift myself out of it for a week at a time. Usually fine when with people at work or with Mrs Mile and the bairn, but I do a lot of long journeys with work and if I'm having one of my glum weeks, the depression really sets in when I am alone driving and often at night when Mrs Mile and the bairn are away to bed and I'm sat up watching TV myself. Not really sure where I'm going with all this or what good it'll do but hey, it's all said now. All pretty familiar. I find that borrowing one of Throbber's socks helps sometimes 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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