BFTD Posted March 6, 2016 Share Posted March 6, 2016 My missus spends all her spare time binge watching Criminal Minds, Bones, CSI and Prison Break. Should I be concerned? Swap you. Mine's taken to watching fairy tale Young Adult pish on Netflix. I thought Twilight was bad enough. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Black and White Tragic Posted March 6, 2016 Share Posted March 6, 2016 If you have a boat for swaps I'd think about it? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BFTD Posted March 6, 2016 Share Posted March 6, 2016 If you have a boat for swaps I'd think about it? She's quite large and disabled, so we might have to give the boat a miss. Just remembered that she's surprisingly dirty though, so maybe it's worth keeping her and putting up with the shite TV shows. Hopefully yours is the same 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Throwaway_tosser Posted September 21, 2016 Share Posted September 21, 2016 Throwaway account since it's a little embarrassing to ask these kind of things on a public forum. I'm struggling. Been with the lady for a few years, living together for the past couple. I'm mid thirties and she is late twenties. She's been hammering for marriage for some time now. I have been resisting because I can't get my head around it for some reason, especially having a family. Just quite daunted by it all and not feeling the drive or enthusiasm. She has a temper and as she has grown more frustrated with me the verbal attacks have gotten worse (she'll be sweet as can be for a week and then explode, real Jekyll and Hyde stuff). For my part I am cynical, a worrier and anxious about everything, especially big life decisions. It's all come to a head. My stuff is packed and ready to move out. Of course at the 11th hour she is now pleading for me to stay and being really nice (for now). In my own head I'm at a crossroads - I already miss the good times (of which there have been many) and she is lovely most of the time, but I also live in constant fear of the next meltdown. I can't bring myself to get married but leaving is proving to be more traumatic than I expected. For those of you that have left under similar circumstances, did you move on or regret your decision in the long term? How about those that went ahead and got married when they weren't quite sure? How did that work out? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DI Bruce Robertson Posted September 21, 2016 Share Posted September 21, 2016 Standard.Swift boot to the pie should sort it. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mizfit Posted September 21, 2016 Share Posted September 21, 2016 4 minutes ago, DI Bruce Robertson said: Standard. Swift boot to the pie should sort it. Don't even think twice. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sergeant Wilson Posted September 21, 2016 Share Posted September 21, 2016 11 minutes ago, Throwaway_tosser said: Throwaway account since it's a little embarrassing to ask these kind of things on a public forum. I'm struggling. Been with the lady for a few years, living together for the past couple. I'm mid thirties and she is late twenties. She's been hammering for marriage for some time now. I have been resisting because I can't get my head around it for some reason, especially having a family. Just quite daunted by it all and not feeling the drive or enthusiasm. She has a temper and as she has grown more frustrated with me the verbal attacks have gotten worse (she'll be sweet as can be for a week and then explode, real Jekyll and Hyde stuff). For my part I am cynical, a worrier and anxious about everything, especially big life decisions. It's all come to a head. My stuff is packed and ready to move out. Of course at the 11th hour she is now pleading for me to stay and being really nice (for now). In my own head I'm at a crossroads - I already miss the good times (of which there have been many) and she is lovely most of the time, but I also live in constant fear of the next meltdown. I can't bring myself to get married but leaving is proving to be more traumatic than I expected. For those of you that have left under similar circumstances, did you move on or regret your decision in the long term? How about those that went ahead and got married when they weren't quite sure? How did that work out? Marry her. If things don't improve have a kid. Preferably more than one. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bobby Skidmarks Posted September 21, 2016 Share Posted September 21, 2016 Throwaway account since it's a little embarrassing to ask these kind of things on a public forum. I'm struggling. Been with the lady for a few years, living together for the past couple. I'm mid thirties and she is late twenties. She's been hammering for marriage for some time now. I have been resisting because I can't get my head around it for some reason, especially having a family. Just quite daunted by it all and not feeling the drive or enthusiasm. She has a temper and as she has grown more frustrated with me the verbal attacks have gotten worse (she'll be sweet as can be for a week and then explode, real Jekyll and Hyde stuff). For my part I am cynical, a worrier and anxious about everything, especially big life decisions. It's all come to a head. My stuff is packed and ready to move out. Of course at the 11th hour she is now pleading for me to stay and being really nice (for now). In my own head I'm at a crossroads - I already miss the good times (of which there have been many) and she is lovely most of the time, but I also live in constant fear of the next meltdown. I can't bring myself to get married but leaving is proving to be more traumatic than I expected. For those of you that have left under similar circumstances, did you move on or regret your decision in the long term? How about those that went ahead and got married when they weren't quite sure? How did that work out? You should cheat on her to see if you love her enough. Then you'll know. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
throbber Posted September 21, 2016 Share Posted September 21, 2016 No - my relationship is going great but she's still fat. Eta this was in response to a quote from supermik asking if the tosser poster was me. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
supermik Posted September 21, 2016 Share Posted September 21, 2016 Already gone.. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bobby Skidmarks Posted September 21, 2016 Share Posted September 21, 2016 No - my relationship is going great but she's still fat. Eta this was in response to a quote from supermik asking if the tosser poster was me. Don't be ashamed to have picked up a fatty. One mans rubbish is another mans treasure. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
throbber Posted September 21, 2016 Share Posted September 21, 2016 Don't be ashamed to have picked up a fatty. One mans rubbish is another mans treasure. I would pm you a naked picture but you have proven you can't keep anything quiet.Why did supermiks post get deleted? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
supermik Posted September 21, 2016 Share Posted September 21, 2016 I cut it as i was trying to be smart but then i thought better of trying to have a cheap shot, sorry. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
throbber Posted September 21, 2016 Share Posted September 21, 2016 I cut it as i was trying to be smart but then i thought better of trying to have a cheap shot, sorry. Don't be sorry for it! I give my Mrs a slagging on here for a laugh, we get on like a house on fire despite her being ridiculously air headed at times (recently she made us miss a bus) and she is quite fat which is partially my fault as I constantly drink so she uses this as an excuse to eat crisps. Can't imagine being with anyone else, most women/other people piss me off far worse than her. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blootoon87 Posted September 21, 2016 Share Posted September 21, 2016 Was this the Bird A / Bird B thread? Whatever happened with that? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sergeant Wilson Posted September 21, 2016 Share Posted September 21, 2016 10 minutes ago, supermik said: I cut it as i was trying to be smart but then i thought better of trying to have a cheap shot, sorry. Don't you dare think like that or we're finished. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bobby Skidmarks Posted September 21, 2016 Share Posted September 21, 2016 I would pm you a naked picture but you have proven you can't keep anything quiet.Why did supermiks post get deleted? I kept your last PM quiet when I could have mocked it.I'm not sure I want a naked picture of your bird though. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
throbber Posted September 21, 2016 Share Posted September 21, 2016 I kept your last PM quiet when I could have mocked it.I'm not sure I want a naked picture of your bird though. No you didn't keep it quiet! It's your fault I missed that bus as well as it was during our exchange. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sergeant Wilson Posted September 21, 2016 Share Posted September 21, 2016 Just now, Bobby Skidmarks said: I kept your last PM quiet when I could have mocked it. I'm not sure I want a naked picture of your bird though. I thought it was of him. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bobby Skidmarks Posted September 21, 2016 Share Posted September 21, 2016 No you didn't keep it quiet! It's your fault I missed that bus as well as it was during our exchange. Don't you start blaming me for missing the bus, that was Fattys fault. All I mentioned from the PM was that it was your birthday. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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