alta-pete Posted July 31 Share Posted July 31 1 minute ago, scottsdad said: This year is our 20th wedding anniversary. I am useless at buying gifts. I need help, guys. £300 EasyJet vouchers. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TxRover Posted July 31 Share Posted July 31 3 minutes ago, scottsdad said: This year is our 20th wedding anniversary. I am useless at buying gifts. I need help, guys. A nice touch, not the main gift, is a nice silver bracelet/chain with a heart engraved with the date you met. Also, there’s stuff online that celebrates the same with a star chart: https://www.thenightsky.com/products/print-12x12-black-uk?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_content=shopping&gad_source=1&gbraid=0AAAAADLetUdIPPGhYTrAzqbc-zPluq0ON&gclid=Cj0KCQjwwae1BhC_ARIsAK4Jfrwg1C1U-_zfyOMsba6vWN-XibgGNU59pMGHnHpVcEn3GrzYaWpDAyQaAgGlEALw_wcB Otherwise, jewelry for 20 is prudent. 19 minutes ago, jimbaxters said: You are too long away from married life, my friend. 15 minutes ago, 'WellDel said: I agree with Jim, it dries up a lot quicker than that... Can’t disagree…assumed I was shorted…know now. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
'WellDel Posted July 31 Share Posted July 31 6 minutes ago, scottsdad said: This year is our 20th wedding anniversary. I am useless at buying gifts. I need help, guys. 20 years is china apparently. Get her a mug. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jambomo Posted July 31 Share Posted July 31 51 minutes ago, scottsdad said: This year is our 20th wedding anniversary. I am useless at buying gifts. I need help, guys. I guess it depends what she likes? What kind of hobbies and interests does she have? I’d say that at 20 years, she probably has what she needs in terms of jewellery and presents like that. I’d say that booking a weekend away somewhere or some kind of event that she is interested in, is probably going to go down well. Experiences tend to be good presents as they are unique and everyone likes to get out and do stuff they find fun. It’s also something you can look back on as well. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
velo army Posted July 31 Share Posted July 31 48 minutes ago, scottsdad said: This year is our 20th wedding anniversary. I am useless at buying gifts. I need help, guys. Take a short course in tantric massage and then get rid of the bairns for a night. It'll change your life mate. Otherwise, what is it you are grateful for in the marriage? What is it you want to tell her? I'd invite you to be bold and romantic rather than practical. Lean into vulnerability and find ways, through gifts or experiences, that tell her she's desirable and important. I think if you ask yourself some questions similar to the above (or what is it that you're afraid to tell her that she would like to hear?) and just let them simmer then you'll find that things will come to you. The tantra thing is the business though. Some reading material like The Art of Sexual Ecstasy (Margot Anand) and Women's Anatomy of Arousal (Sheri Winston) are great. Good luck. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JamesP_81 Posted July 31 Share Posted July 31 1 hour ago, velo army said: Take a short course in tantric massage and then get rid of the bairns for a night. It'll change your life mate. Otherwise, what is it you are grateful for in the marriage? What is it you want to tell her? I'd invite you to be bold and romantic rather than practical. Lean into vulnerability and find ways, through gifts or experiences, that tell her she's desirable and important. I think if you ask yourself some questions similar to the above (or what is it that you're afraid to tell her that she would like to hear?) and just let them simmer then you'll find that things will come to you. The tantra thing is the business though. Some reading material like The Art of Sexual Ecstasy (Margot Anand) and Women's Anatomy of Arousal (Sheri Winston) are great. Good luck. ^^^ scottsdad's Mrs found. 8 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Swarley Posted July 31 Share Posted July 31 3 hours ago, scottsdad said: This year is our 20th wedding anniversary. I am useless at buying gifts. I need help, guys. P&B Platinum Membership ? 8 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hk blues Posted August 1 Share Posted August 1 6 hours ago, scottsdad said: This year is our 20th wedding anniversary. I am useless at buying gifts. I need help, guys. A nice weekend away. I'm sure you can occupy yourself while she's away. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Swarley Posted August 1 Share Posted August 1 7 hours ago, velo army said: Take a short course in tantric massage and then get rid of the bairns for a night. It'll change your life mate. Hiya Sting, hiya pal. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sugna Posted August 1 Share Posted August 1 10 hours ago, scottsdad said: This year is our 20th wedding anniversary. I am useless at buying gifts. I need help, guys. 7 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cb_diamond Posted August 1 Share Posted August 1 2 hours ago, Swarley said: Hiya Sting, hiya pal. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leith Green Posted August 1 Share Posted August 1 11 hours ago, scottsdad said: This year is our 20th wedding anniversary. I am useless at buying gifts. I need help, guys. Same here. In fact it's in 3 weeks Not sure I will get away with "couple of drinks at the local followed by an Italian meal" this year....... 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scottsdad Posted August 1 Share Posted August 1 1 hour ago, sugna said: This is the frontrunner so far. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Swarley Posted August 1 Share Posted August 1 22 years for me. This year I went to the Euros. Best anniversary ever. * * unless the wife reads this then it was awful and I missed her terribly. 10 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
101 Posted August 1 Share Posted August 1 13 hours ago, scottsdad said: This year is our 20th wedding anniversary. I am useless at buying gifts. I need help, guys. A better car 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Salt n Vinegar Posted August 1 Share Posted August 1 (edited) 16 hours ago, scottsdad said: This year is our 20th wedding anniversary. I am useless at buying gifts. I need help, guys. After 20 years, she's probably got everything she could possibly want. Get a t-shirt printed up saying "I've got everything", then a box of chocolates as a wee surprise. Edited August 1 by Salt n Vinegar 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loonytoons Posted August 1 Share Posted August 1 4 hours ago, Leith Green said: Same here. In fact it's in 3 weeks Not sure I will get away with "couple of drinks at the local followed by an Italian meal" this year....... Chinese meal for 20 year anniversary. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
101 Posted August 1 Share Posted August 1 4 minutes ago, Loonytoons said: Chinese meal for 20 year anniversary. @scottsdad being huckled after his wife’s “friend” also turns up. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Florentine_Pogen Posted August 1 Share Posted August 1 5 hours ago, Leith Green said: Same here. In fact it's in 3 weeks Not sure I will get away with "couple of drinks at the local followed by an Italian meal" this year....... 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mark Connolly Posted August 1 Share Posted August 1 19 hours ago, scottsdad said: This year is our 20th wedding anniversary. I am useless at buying gifts. I need help, guys. 8 hours ago, Leith Green said: Same here. In fact it's in 3 weeks Not sure I will get away with "couple of drinks at the local followed by an Italian meal" this year....... Aggressive eye contact, then, equally, aggressive fingering. Spoiler RIP @Dee Dee 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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