My dad's funeral was at the end of last week. It was a really nice humanist send-off. Music he liked (Scottish country dancing stuff), and the celebrant was a guy he knew and used to work with. The funeral director was a mate of mine at school, and knew my dad since he was a toddler. He really went the extra mile with everything. We expected about 150 to turn up, and almost 240 did in the end.
I left mid-afternoon once we had had the tea. The kids sat well through it all, their first funeral ever.
Sorry, nothing for the "shenanigans" part of the thread but just to say, when it is done well, it makes a huge difference. Sod all that "Cremate your loved one for a grand" pish, or having the Co-op anywhere near a funeral.