Boo Khaki Posted Tuesday at 23:03 Share Posted Tuesday at 23:03 1 minute ago, 19QOS19 said: If someone knowingly gets involved with a married person (particularly if they have a family) then it's shitty behaviour IMO. They're bound to know it'll be devastating when it comes out. The free-agent argument doesn't wash with me. It's not an "argument", its a fact If you make a commitment to someone, then it's up to you to honour that commitment, police your behaviour, and make appropriate decisions. It's not up to 3rd parties to police your behaviour for you, and they've made no commitments at all to anybody. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
19QOS19 Posted Tuesday at 23:10 Share Posted Tuesday at 23:10 5 minutes ago, Boo Khaki said: It's not an "argument", its a fact If you make a commitment to someone, then it's up to you to honour that commitment, police your behaviour, and make appropriate decisions. It's not up to 3rd parties to police your behaviour for you, and they've made no commitments at all to anybody. Of course. But to get involved with someone you know has a partner and kids is still shitty behaviour. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jimbaxters Posted Tuesday at 23:18 Share Posted Tuesday at 23:18 4 hours ago, Boo Khaki said: This is precisely how the children of Boomers wedding's work. There was a Funeral Director at mine. Not that strange I suppose, they are just people after all, and they have lives, children etc. What was odd about this is I'd never met the guy, he was no relation to anyone there, neither me nor the missus invited him, and it turns out he was only there because he'd done the funeral of one of the in-laws' relatives and made such a "nice" job of it they felt it would be rude no to "return the favour". There were also random farmers I'd never met, who made a point of coming up to explain to me that the reason they were all bailing at 6pm wasn't the food, company, or entertainment, but that they still had sheep and coos to feed that meant getting up at 4am I thought you were going to say they were bailing because they had to get up to do some baleing 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alta-pete Posted Tuesday at 23:33 Share Posted Tuesday at 23:33 14 minutes ago, jimbaxters said: I thought you were going to say they were bailing because they had to get up to do some baleing Or maybe even some baling. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jimbaxters Posted Tuesday at 23:34 Share Posted Tuesday at 23:34 1 minute ago, alta-pete said: Or maybe even some baling. Hands up. Although in my defence it's rair for me to make a mistake like that. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alert Mongoose Posted yesterday at 09:50 Share Posted yesterday at 09:50 19 hours ago, Hedgecutter said: Knew a guy up north who was cheating on his then-girlfriend with her 'identical' twin sister (very similar, but you tell one from the other fairly instantly) who came up to do some seasonal work as a barmaid with her. They got rumbled rather quickly in a village rammed with Isa Drennan-like gossips, but the guy genuinely tried to play the whole "I thought she was you" card. The thing was, he was the village idiot and so there's always that chance he was telling the truth. There was only one sister on the bar after that. I vaguely remember a series about these girls. They had seperate boyfriends which was just a mind blowing concept. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hedgecutter Posted yesterday at 10:03 Share Posted yesterday at 10:03 10 minutes ago, Alert Mongoose said: I vaguely remember a series about these girls. They had seperate boyfriends which was just a mind blowing concept. Someone's going to be disappointed when they reply to "young, blonde twin sisters seek threesome..." 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alert Mongoose Posted yesterday at 10:04 Share Posted yesterday at 10:04 Just now, Hedgecutter said: Someone's going to be disappointed when they reply to "young, blonde twin sisters seek threesome..." Can I shock you..? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hedgecutter Posted yesterday at 10:14 Share Posted yesterday at 10:14 7 minutes ago, Alert Mongoose said: Can I shock you..? You're asking the question of whether a self-flick counts as lesbian action. We all are. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doulikefish Posted yesterday at 10:15 Share Posted yesterday at 10:15 Just now, Hedgecutter said: You're asking the question of whether a self-flick counts as lesbian action. We all are. The very definition of laying on your non writing arm to make it feel like it somebody else 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Richey Edwards Posted 23 hours ago Share Posted 23 hours ago (edited) Rail companies have agreed a new pay deal. https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c0r8g244zggo Edited 23 hours ago by Richey Edwards 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doulikefish Posted 23 hours ago Share Posted 23 hours ago 9 minutes ago, Richey Edwards said: Rail companies have agreed a new pay deal. https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c0r8g244zggo A sordid affair 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sergeant Wilson Posted 22 hours ago Share Posted 22 hours ago 17 hours ago, Ross. said: I once went home with a girl who told me quite matter of fact that she would only give me a handjob because she didn’t want to cheat on her boyfriend. This conversation was after getting back to mines. You'd have settled for that if you'd thought about it before you went out. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
10menwent2mow Posted 20 hours ago Share Posted 20 hours ago I've been cheated on and I've been the person who has been the bit on the side but I've never cheated myself. I have felt bad being the bit on the side but have always managed to justify it to myself. It's never been with someone married though, just in a relationship. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alta-pete Posted 19 hours ago Share Posted 19 hours ago 1 hour ago, 10menwent2mow said: I have felt bad being the bit on the side but have always managed to justify it to myself. It's never been with someone married though, just in a relationship. Aye. Yer hole’s yer hole after all. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BukyOHare Posted 18 hours ago Author Share Posted 18 hours ago 2 hours ago, 10menwent2mow said: I've been cheated on and I've been the person who has been the bit on the side but I've never cheated myself. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ross. Posted 18 hours ago Share Posted 18 hours ago 3 hours ago, Sergeant Wilson said: You'd have settled for that if you'd thought about it before you went out. I settled for that after thinking about it at the time. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thistledo Posted 4 hours ago Share Posted 4 hours ago Came close to cheating on an ex before we were married, we're now divorced (thank f**k) and I always think, ach f**k I should have just done it. You always regret the things you don't do. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Moonster Posted 4 hours ago Share Posted 4 hours ago I've had one girlfriend that cheated on me (well at least that I'm aware of). She done it twice, both times with pals of mine. There were warning signs but I passed over them as I was getting my end away. I feel I've been a pretty good judge of character since. Couldn't do it to someone else. So much unnecessary pain caused by something that could be solved with a conversation. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scottsdad Posted 4 hours ago Share Posted 4 hours ago 22 minutes ago, The Moonster said: I've had one girlfriend that cheated on me (well at least that I'm aware of). She done it twice, both times with pals of mine. There were warning signs but I passed over them as I was getting my end away. I feel I've been a pretty good judge of character since. Couldn't do it to someone else. So much unnecessary pain caused by something that could be solved with a conversation. Hopefully ex-pals now 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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