Jimmy85 Posted July 25, 2013 Share Posted July 25, 2013 I'd also suggest that later in the evening, if they are fairly drunk and getting on well, that you casually mention threesomes. Stranger things have happened. You absolutely must do this. You don't want this to be a 'what could've been moment' when you're lying on your deathbed. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
11thHour Posted July 25, 2013 Share Posted July 25, 2013 I would still mention to the ex that it could possibly be awkward and see what she says and if she still thinks it would be fine I would arrange it but definitely tell your current missus that an ex will be there. If she's as non-possessive as you say it should be fine. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fudge Posted July 25, 2013 Share Posted July 25, 2013 If she's as non-possessive as you say it should be fine. The only 'problem' is that my ex is ridiculously attractive. I've genuinely no idea what she was doing with me. If I was meeting my girlfirend's ex I'd be hoping he was some wee specky dweeb. If he was a Brad Pitt lookalike I'd be left feeling pretty shite. Drunken threesome leads the way so far 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weirdcal Posted July 25, 2013 Share Posted July 25, 2013 my current and my ex met in the back of my car as i gave them both a lift to work. they get on too well if you ask me no chance of a 3's. a 2's would be more likely with me out the picture haha 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bert Raccoon Posted July 25, 2013 Share Posted July 25, 2013 Definitely the threesome option. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KnightswoodBear Posted July 25, 2013 Share Posted July 25, 2013 The more info Fudge gives us, the more likely I see this scenario panning out with him on extended rations of bread and water. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lanky_ffc Posted July 25, 2013 Share Posted July 25, 2013 Personally, I'd avoid 1) and 2) as they seem a bit dishonest to your current GF. 3) would be the least awkward situation for all involved but 4) has the most potential for 3some. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doulikefish Posted July 25, 2013 Share Posted July 25, 2013 If she wants to meet your current girlfriend then i wouldnt let her,shes a women shes up to know good know matter how well you think you get on or know her 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fudge Posted July 25, 2013 Share Posted July 25, 2013 If she wants to meet your current girlfriend then i wouldnt let her,shes a women shes up to know good know matter how well you think you get on or know her I'm 100% sure that's not the case. She's just genuinely interested in my life and how I'm getting on. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ballymoneyyin Posted July 25, 2013 Share Posted July 25, 2013 (edited) This is a reasonably serious question, but snidey remarks will also be gladly welcomed. I'm still very good friends with my ex-girlfriend. The only reason we broke up (3 years ago) is beause she moved down to London for uni/work. We text regularly and I've met up with her a fair few times in the last couple of years, including staying over at her flat down there. She is coming back up to Glasgow in a couple of weeks and says she wants to meet my current girlfriend, but I'm slightly worried that could throw up a bit of an awkward situation and I'm not sure what to do. As far as I can see it, my options are... 1) Say no, and explain it could cause awkwardness. 2) Go out with my ex, my girlfriend and a few others friends without revealing we used to go out. She'd get to meet her without there being any awkwardness, though I'd not exactly be telling the whole truth 3) Go out with a my ex, my girlfriend and a few other friend and tell her that we used to go out. I'd be telling the complete truth and the fact there would be a few people there would limit potential awkwardness. 4) Go for a drink with just the two of them. Despite my girlfriend being non possessive and ery relaxed, it might make her a bit uncomfortable. Thoughts P&B? Why does she want to meet your girlfriend? Edited July 25, 2013 by ballymoneyyin 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fudge Posted July 25, 2013 Share Posted July 25, 2013 Why does she want to meet your girlfriend? See my post above 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dee Man Posted July 25, 2013 Share Posted July 25, 2013 This is a reasonably serious question, but snidey remarks will also be gladly welcomed. I'm still very good friends with my ex-girlfriend. The only reason we broke up (3 years ago) is beause she moved down to London for uni/work. We text regularly and I've met up with her a fair few times in the last couple of years, including staying over at her flat down there. She is coming back up to Glasgow in a couple of weeks and says she wants to meet my current girlfriend, but I'm slightly worried that could throw up a bit of an awkward situation and I'm not sure what to do. As far as I can see it, my options are... 1) Say no, and explain it could cause awkwardness. 2) Go out with my ex, my girlfriend and a few others friends without revealing we used to go out. She'd get to meet her without there being any awkwardness, though I'd not exactly be telling the whole truth 3) Go out with a my ex, my girlfriend and a few other friend and tell her that we used to go out. I'd be telling the complete truth and the fact there would be a few people there would limit potential awkwardness. 4) Go for a drink with just the two of them. Despite my girlfriend being non possessive and ery relaxed, it might make her a bit uncomfortable. Thoughts P&B? This is going to end in tears. Please post the results of this meeting and the subsequent weeks of uncomfortable questioning by your soon to be massively insecure girlfriend. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lisa Cuddy Posted July 25, 2013 Share Posted July 25, 2013 Do not, under any circumstances withhold the fact that she's an ex girlfriend. Tell the current girlfriend that an ex girlfriend has been in touch and wants to meet up with the two of you. If you neglect to mention she's an ex and it ends up revealed at some point, she'll start to wonder why you kept it from her. Your girlfriend's a nice girl and she's not daft. I can't see her being too bothered by the truth. Once she knows, the decision will make itself. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WILLIEA Posted July 25, 2013 Share Posted July 25, 2013 You could just join the French Foreign Legion! 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest The Phoenix Posted July 25, 2013 Share Posted July 25, 2013 5) Don't let the ex or the current within 10 miles of each other. Doorstep, shit, own, don't etc etc 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
capybara Posted July 25, 2013 Share Posted July 25, 2013 Canny open P&B App on Samsung galaxy , downlods fine will not open. Any ideas folks. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bullywee Posted July 25, 2013 Share Posted July 25, 2013 Canny open P&B App on Samsung galaxy , downlods fine will not open. Any ideas folks. Definitely a threesome. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hedgecutter Posted July 25, 2013 Share Posted July 25, 2013 Do not, under any circumstances withhold the fact that she's an ex girlfriend. Tell the current girlfriend that an ex girlfriend has been in touch and wants to meet up with the two of you. If you neglect to mention she's an ex and it ends up revealed at some point, she'll start to wonder why you kept it from her. Your girlfriend's a nice girl and she's not daft. I can't see her being too bothered by the truth. Once she knows, the decision will make itself. Almost exactly what my girlfriend said when I gave Fudge's situation. She was basically saying tell her the ex is coming up and say "that won't be a massive issue, will it?". If she says no, go out regardless and just pull the ex on the dancefloor claiming that the current one is too much of a control freak. Then say sorry a week later and everything will be fine again (and she'll never say no again). That last bit isn't her advice btw. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hedgecutter Posted July 25, 2013 Share Posted July 25, 2013 The worst thing about the advice she gave is that she has actually met an ex of mine, still not knowing she was one. This just gives me more reason to keep it quiet. The ex was working in a bar up north and served us when my girlfriend and I went there for a few drinks, so different situation. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Swarley Posted July 25, 2013 Share Posted July 25, 2013 I'm 100% sure that's not the case. She's just genuinely interested in my life and how I'm getting on. Shite! She's hypnotised you with her womanly charms. Women are always up to something and you can't believe a word they say. Does your current girlfriend have a pet rabbit? Sent from my GT-I9100 using Pie & Bovril mobile app 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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