Jambomo Posted March 3, 2016 Share Posted March 3, 2016 I've been living (unmarried though) for 11 years with the OH. We have separate accounts and are both happy with that - makes things much easier and when we need to buy something we both just put in half the cash. Don't get why you need a joint account really - what I earn I can choose to spend as I like and he does likewise. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hk blues Posted March 3, 2016 Share Posted March 3, 2016 (edited) We were talking about getting a joint account for the bills that we would pay half each into and then keep our current accounts separate. My Mrs is quite good with money, she wouldn't buy something without telling me i don't think so this somewhat makes up for her being fat but not entirely. But why not just have one joint account instead of one joint account and two separate current accounts? Surely easier to manage?Bit like having 3 beds, one for sex and 2 others for sleeping! Edited March 3, 2016 by hk blues 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DA Baracus Posted March 3, 2016 Share Posted March 3, 2016 I've been living (unmarried though) for 11 years with the OH. We have separate accounts and are both happy with that - makes things much easier and when we need to buy something we both just put in half the cash. Don't get why you need a joint account really - what I earn I can choose to spend as I like and he does likewise. This, although I don't think Throbber's idea of also having a joint account where you pay in money for bills is a terrible idea. But just having a single joint account is an atrocious way to operate. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monster Posted March 3, 2016 Share Posted March 3, 2016 Monster i love this sort of thing, loved shopping for stuff for my flat when i first moved in and these little things matter. Bevelled edges are probably safer. You loved shopping for stuff for your flat, aye? Fridge, beer for fridge, big telly, armchair, that sort of thing? Or was it throw pillows to ease the thrush around your clunge? Round edges increase your chances of survival when you pass out drunk and smash your head off the edge. The downside to that is that round edges increase your chances of survival when you pass out drunk and smash your head off the edge. We (she) chose beveled. This must mean that she is subliminally suggesting I am a beast or she's waiting for me to pass out drunk and collect the life insurance. 2 hours? I was an hour looking, but wait until it gets to the design and paperwork stage. 2 and a bit hours design, and an hour and half on fucking paperwork!!!! It always cheers me up knowing there are others in a leakier boat. I trust you'll be contacting your ol' pal for a quote... I'd love it if clients were as quick as that making a choice on a kitchen. More often than not my clients take umpteen showroom visits, a hundred emails and half a dozen 3D designs and quote changes before finally deciding. I had no idea kitchens were part of your business, I thought it was renovations. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shandon Par Posted March 3, 2016 Share Posted March 3, 2016 I designed, bought and fitted my own kitchen Its a bit shit, right enough but it still works. Chez MoMo: 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweet Pete Posted March 3, 2016 Share Posted March 3, 2016 I had no idea kitchens were part of your business, I thought it was renovations. Primarily building contractors, but we also design, supply and install kitchens. Have a showroom in the west end. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweet Pete Posted March 3, 2016 Share Posted March 3, 2016 I had no idea you were a salesman. I'm not. I manage a construction company. They just happen to sell kitchens. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monster Posted March 3, 2016 Share Posted March 3, 2016 Monster you clearly have no pride in the place you live if you don't want to go shopping for items for it. Either that, or i'm happy enough to let the wife have her way. I have the basics I want: a quality armchair, a well stocked fridge and a shitload of trainers. Primarily building contractors, but we also design, supply and install kitchens. Have a showroom in the west end. I had no idea. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweet Pete Posted March 3, 2016 Share Posted March 3, 2016 Do you manage a good marriage though? Yes, my marriage is excellent. Thank you. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scary Bear Posted March 3, 2016 Share Posted March 3, 2016 I am too afraid to ask my Mrs to marry me because I don't know who I would have as a best man and am scared of being blackened. Racist? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zen Archer (Raconteur) Posted March 3, 2016 Share Posted March 3, 2016 I am too afraid to ask my Mrs to marry me because I don't know who I would have as a best man and am scared of being blackened. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sergeant Wilson Posted March 3, 2016 Share Posted March 3, 2016 Rather than tell my girlfriend that my fear is actually of the wedding/pre wedding i just tell her its because I'm not sure i want to marry her to keep her on her toes.If only there was someone on the thread that was married who could counsel you. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sergeant Wilson Posted March 3, 2016 Share Posted March 3, 2016 I was married but now I'm blissfully divorced.No, someone who maybe got married recently, who knows what it's all about. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weirdcal Posted March 3, 2016 Share Posted March 3, 2016 Recently married piece of piss. Get your speech right and let her have the day she wants. Fucking easy 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zen Archer (Raconteur) Posted March 3, 2016 Share Posted March 3, 2016 Recently married piece of piss. Get your speech right and let her have the day she wants. Fucking easy You or her? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RH33 Posted March 3, 2016 Share Posted March 3, 2016 Recently (well 18 months) ago seperated Don't bother. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BFTD Posted March 3, 2016 Share Posted March 3, 2016 I am too afraid to ask my Mrs to marry me because I don't know who I would have as a best man and am scared of being blackened. Start a new thread; put it to the vote. P&B has you covered. What do you mean by 'blackened', by the way? Judging by some of the videos I've seen online, you should be more worried about your missus being 'blackened' on her hen night. (I think that's what they called it, anyway) 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weirdcal Posted March 4, 2016 Share Posted March 4, 2016 You or her? me haha.Punctuation, always remember punctuation. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MONKMAN Posted March 4, 2016 Share Posted March 4, 2016 I'd never heard of 'blackening' until a guy from Fraserburgh was telling me about it at work. Is it a northern thing? 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jambomo Posted March 4, 2016 Share Posted March 4, 2016 Well the obvious answer is eloping to Gretna (or Vegas) and just having a wedding with the two of you. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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